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Question

my b/f wants sex all the time but hes better if we wait a few days in between. he only lasts maybe 10 mintues at the most thats even with an hour of foreplay. anything we can do?

i dont mind having sex everyday day but it just not as good as if he waits a few days.

Answer 1

Well it sounds like if he waits a couple of days, it makes him too anxious? Perhaps if you are going to "wait a few days" then you should allow him two orgasms? This is a personal question, but often when a man is anxious he can be "quicker on the trigger"...If you were to wait a few days then be able to take your time, allow him to have his first orgasm then recover, the second time will probably last longer, and be more satisfying for both of you because he will not be so anxious.

Or you could go with the advice on that movie "Something About Mary" and let him have "self-sex" before your "date". This will make him less sensitive and the second time around he will not be as anxious.

Good luck. Remember to use condoms, a man's sperm count is higher if you wait several days between because his body has more time to produce sperm. Many fertility specialists will suggest that the husband and wife wait until she is ovulating if the man's sperm count is found to be low when tested.

Answer 2

First of all how long has he been having sex? It takes time guy to get use keeping it hard when your a beginner. Anyways Tell him to focus more on you and not to his problem of not being up long enough he might be stressed by that time. If that doesn't work at the sex store they sell some penis rings that cut the blood circulation so that it lasts longer usually used by strippers. So Good Luck P.S. 10 minutes is not bad for a begginer later he'll be like my guy that we can do for hours but sometimes you gotta recharge so that is another tip.Good Luck Again

Answer 3

I know what you mean, sex is better if you dont do it too often. Once a day is good for me, and ive been with my man for almost 3 years. To make him last longer focus your foreplay on him first, so it gives him time to cool down while he pleases you, he wont be ready to blow when he gets in there... Try slowing down when he feels his climax coming on.

Answer 4

How long does he last when you guys wait for few days? And can you stay without sex for few days? Have you guys thought about using toys to enhance the pleasure?

Answer 5

Tell me do you get orgasm when he *** in that 10 min? Sorry to say but I love sex, if my husband could give it to me everyday I will be a happy woman. But he last only 10 min to because he says he get to horny...come on. But if you feel this way why don't you tell him, the p****need rest.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

i think it is best if you wait for a few days then and just build up by getting romantic on the other days but dont give him what he wants so he is very horny on the day you do want it!

Answer 8

thats the same thing i say to mine. r u sure we r not dating the same person? lol. i say the same that it matters more and is better the longer you wait. evry day is bogus and meaningless. just keep telling em that. and if they dont like it, like w me, it'll cause problems, and u have to find someone else or b on ur own.

Answer 9

Wow...my husband goes for hours...which is sometimes not a great thing...lol!
Tell him honestly how you feel and maybe try some role playing or fun games!

Answer 10

if u havent done it already....maybe make him come during the hour of foreplay. jack him off or make him come in your mouth. give it a try and see what happenes.