2006-06-24 05:00:25 · 16 answers · asked by rap2slim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Polite, a good listener, a bit humorous. You pay for everything and don't expect to cash in on it.
2006-06-24 05:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should be attentive, caring, polite, and unexpectant. You should never walk into the date with any expectations other than for you and the girl to have a good time. NO PRESSURE!!!!!!!!! Do not ever try and pressure someone into doing something. Try and keep the date non-sex oriented. Nothing can kill the perfect first date like sex can, believe it or not. So be romantic without going overboard, be a good listner, and most of all, be a gentleman.
2006-06-24 12:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first date is an opportunity for you to examine the behaviors of your partner. Women are usually eager to express themselves occasions like these so be cool and listen. Try not to talk too much about yourself, unless she asks you to. Your form of communication would be responses to her questions, complements on her attire, and a series of nods and gestures that show your partner that you are all ears.The main focus is to gain the trust of your partner so she would want to go out on another date, where you can open up to your partner a little more.
2006-06-24 12:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jiggaman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, A GENTLEMAN! Open the car door for her, place your hand on the Small of her back or hold hands, open doors for her, pull out her chair for her...be a real man! Also, all of my girlfriends and I agree, if you want to be perceived as a brilliant conversationalist, listen, listen and than listen some more! It works, really. But most importantly....be yourself. You don't want this lady to start to like a man who is only playing a part or acting like someone you think she may like. Good luck and I think it is absolutely adorable you are looking for advice!
2006-06-24 12:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a polite gentleman. If it is going to happen it will, if you are and a bit reserved, a woman will indicate she is looking for a bit more. Otherwise, have a friend give you a call about an hour later to make an excuse to leave. But at least give her a chance.
2006-06-24 12:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by A A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, be yourself and don't be nervous. just act as if she's your best friend that you have known for ages and don't say any cheesy chatup lines because its not impressive. Just be confident and make sure your not the one who's talking all the time! Let her speak aswell by asking her questions and stuff, that will make her feel more comfortable! hope this helps and have a nice time :)
2006-06-24 12:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Katieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't try too hard, women can see through that. Also, be attentive, listen, have a positive attitude, and very importantly, don't look at other women when your with her, make her feel like she is the only one in the room.
2006-06-24 12:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by SAChicky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself so there is nothing left to have her say I didn't realize you were like this because you didn't do that or act that way on our first date :)
2006-06-24 12:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An absolute gentleman. Women like being treated like a lady.
2006-06-24 12:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be a gentleman. dont make moves to fast. depending on the girl if shes is shy or not.
2006-06-24 12:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋