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I have problems getting guys. I think it is because I don't have a social life and I sit in my room all day. I don't want to leave my house too much because I am a guitar geek and I prefer to keep up my guitar playing skills rather than going out in public because I lost my social skills playing guitar 8 hours a day. HELP!!

2006-06-24 04:52:37 · 20 answers · asked by rewobeirracwoo 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I know its not easy sometimes going out...but the other guys are right...you have to try and go out to meet new people..sometimes easier said than done.

Don't worry too much though...cos you'll meet someone when the time is right...patience is a virtue.

2006-06-24 05:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sunman 1 · 1 0

There is always internet dating and matchmaking just be careful.. Your guitar skills dont have to suffer by having a social life. There are plenty of hours in the day, make time for romance. The social skills that you lost will come back to you, kind of like riding a bike.

2006-06-24 04:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cash K 2 · 0 0

Your allowing your guitar to take the place of social interaction and that is a hole lot of love. Are you sure you not just using that as an excuse? could it be that you just afraid to get out there. How about taking a guitar class, even if you already know how to play, you can meet other people with the same interest

2006-06-24 04:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0 0

Find a guy guitarist. You can spend time together doing what you both enjoy! Also, sit down with a piece of paper, and a pen, and ask yourself some hard questions...do you LIKE other people, or do you prefer solitude? Do you really want a man in your life,
kids, family, that whole trip, or do you prefer the benefits of being single? Do you think you're attractive/unattractive/have you gotten an outside opinion? Are you shy about meeting new people, are you comfortable being single etc...some people live life solo, and get through it ok...it's largely up to you...

2006-06-24 04:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0 0

Lots of guys out there in the same boat as you. Maybe you should get online and find them. Then you might find a soulmate that has the same interests as you, and staying in playing guitar will be something you can do together.

2006-06-24 04:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by A A 3 · 0 0

first of all you gotta leave the room. if you care more about guitar than why even ask this question... you know they are not gonna come knock down the door. find somewhere to play your quitar. a nice place not a bar. then maybe you'd find someone with the same interest... good luck... God bless....

2006-06-24 04:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by jrcdsl 2 · 0 0

you ever thought of going to a guitar class there you can meet new people and still play guitar and learn new things

2006-06-24 04:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0 0

join a band with cute guys and go for gigs? u get to practise on ur guitar and meet guys either frm ur own band or other bands or guitar lovers frm the audience.

2006-06-24 04:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by lulu 4 · 0 0

Shave and shed some pounds, sista. Go crack the guitar o'er the back a someone's cranium.

2006-06-24 04:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by alex_sublime 2 · 0 0

Hey. Maybe you need to find someone who shares your interests. You can form a band or something. So, you're a guitarist huh? I'm a singer/songwriter/guitarist myself. How long have you been playing? I have 3 songs on here: www.myspace.com/shosmusic
KEEP ROCKING!!!

2006-06-24 05:19:07 · answer #10 · answered by myspace.com/shosmusic 3 · 0 0

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