she alway refused me making love to her so the day she accept i refuse to make love to her that day so since then she has been avoiding me i still love her but i donot know what to do to get her back
2006-06-24 04:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by homepoet 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
WELL WANT NOT USE YOU SCREEN NAME AND WRITE HER A FEW HOME MADE POEMS..DO ALWAYS PUSH THE ISSUE OF MAKING LOVE..ALOT OF TIMES JUST CUDDLING YOU CAN GET JUST AS MUCH PLEASURE OUT OF THAT..THAT IS ONE THING GUYS DON'T REALIZE THAT WOMEN DON;T ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE THE THE ERECT PENIS IN ORDER TO BE SATISFIED..THERE IS ALOT MORE TO LOVE THAT INERT COURSE..WHICH MEN WOULD GET MORE EDUCATION ON THE WAY WOMEN THINK AND FEEL BEFORE THEY JUST THINK ABOUT SEX...
2006-06-25 09:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Most women want to feel safe and protected. Until they feel that way a boyfriend will not get sex. When she finally arrived at a point where she trusted you, you tried a power play. No woman wants a man who's going to try to use her sexuality against her. It's difficult enough for women to embrace their sexuality (society is mostly against it), so if guys refuse it reinforces their lack of trust. In this case it looks like her reservations were right on the money. You behaved badly. Learn from the experience and don't do it again.
2006-06-24 04:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Talon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it! You never keep asking a woman to make love, to me that is a turn off. A woman will always give signs when she is ready to make love to you. She is avoiding you now because she was ready to give herself to you and you turned her down. She now thinks that you don't want anything to do with her.
You love her so now you need to bend over backwards if you have to to please her. Show her how much you love her. She feels you don't love her anymore because you refused. Patch this relationship as fast as you can before you lose her.
Flowers, a nice dinner, show some romance every day and don't push her away again.
2006-06-24 10:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Dottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when she finally agreed, that was a HUGE step in the relationship, and by turning it down, that hurt her big time!! So you probably screwed up huge in her eyes. All I can tell you to do is talk it out with her, explain that you didn't feel like she was agreeing to making love because she really wanted to, but because she knew you wanted to, and you wanted to wait until you were both ready. You didn't understand entirely and feel really bad. But if she still wants to end the relationship, it's over buddy. You can't make her stay with you if she doesn't want to.
2006-06-24 04:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by chica_zarca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, by turning her down you probably hurt your relationship more than you can imagine. Anyone has the right to say "no" and maybe your girlfriend wasn't ready to have sex. Then, when she is you are spiteful and say no to her. Can you imagine how horrible that made her feel? Apologize to her. Tell her you realize your mistake and beg for forgiveness. If she loves you she will forgive you. Just don't expect sex foe awhile!
2006-06-24 04:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, if one person in the relationship isnt happy, its really no point carrying on that way... because then it affects the both of youll badly. Try to let go of thngs while its still possible.
2006-06-24 04:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just dont click man - life is tough like that. Maybe try see what she wants instead of what you want - coz you need to agree on things like that -
2006-06-24 04:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by abaz_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the think approximately calling her maggie if her call is baylee? lol if she loves you like you like her ask her to have a communication together with her dad possibly whilst he sees how lots she loves you he will permit her
2016-10-31 10:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your girlfriend is a "he"... so honestly I don't blame you for not wanting to get laid by him. That's gross.
2006-06-24 04:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Boob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do?
first thing to do is to go back to grammar school!
2006-06-24 04:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by Pobept 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋