hi. i love my doctor at the university and he seems to love me , too. i have never confess to him and neither he did. the problem is that he is married and i can not get him out of my head. i do not want to mess his life or to hurt his wife. plz him tell what to do for i can not ignore him any more.
2006-06-24 04:31:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is common for women/girls to fall in love with someone who is taking care of them or is in a powerful position over them, especially if they happen to be nice and decent looking. These are feelings that will go away, and I suggest you try going out with some guys around your age to see how you feel. If you care about this person, don't act on your feelings as he has A LOT to lose from it and as you just starting your life might not have as much to lose. IE: you get a broken heart and he gets a divorse, possibly lose his job, financial trouble...not to mention if he has kids.
2006-06-24 04:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget him and get a new doctor. I'm sure you don't want to be the reason that he ends his marriage with his wife because then you'll feel horrible. And don't think that he'll ever leave his wife...because he won't. If he ever does it won't be because or for you it'll be his own decision. Maybe later in life if he gets divorced you could make it work. But think about it....do you really want to be with a guy that is so easily strayed away from his family? Because if he can he probably will do the same thing to you.
2006-06-24 11:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Charmedwu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for a new job, or new doctor! "Seems to love you".....just means he's willing to cheat. He's married. Move on. He will never truly love you, cuz he's really just trying to get away with something he has no business doing...cheating on his wife. Don't ruin a family over lust hun.
Always think how would I want someone else to treat this situation if I was married. Go out - meet other people. There's a single man out there just for you.
2006-06-24 11:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change doctors. Plain and simple.
You both are living in two separate worlds and even if you got together with him it wouldn't ever turn into something that could last. The first few times would be great but you would still be going to parties alone and he would still be going home to his family. Don't put yourself through that drama. Find someone who is single.
2006-06-24 11:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by May 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to leave him alone. He may be just infatuated with you. I'm glad that you don't want to hurt his wife, this is good. One thing you need to consider that if he would leave his wife for you....then what would stop him in the future for leaving you for someone else? This person is not yours, and as hard as it is to realize, the best thing is to let him go. If you're having a sexual relationship, then it's time to stop before you get caught. It's not worth it, plus chances are, is that the relationship is built only on sex.....just a "booty call", and then you're probably not the only one. You're treading on dangerous ground, let this man go, before you get hurt yourself. Best of luck with your decision........
2006-06-24 13:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better ignore him because if he isn't totally into you and his wife finds out then you are in for a world of hurt. Get it out of your mind quick
2006-06-24 11:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey pumpkin,,,,,I wish you the best,,, I will always love you,,,Your a good mother just not a good wife. I hope your plan works out for you. Dean
2006-06-24 12:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the movie "what lies beneath" Walk away, it will always turn out the bad way.
2006-06-24 11:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Yves L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your no home-wrecker girl!!!!! Think about if it was oyu wh was his wife, if he can cheat on his wife he can and will cheat on his girlfirend.
2006-06-24 11:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. It ain't worth it.
2006-06-24 11:35:00 · answer #10 · answered by A A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋