I'm still in love with this guy who broke my heart what do i do?

Question

I'm still in love with this guy who broke my heart. And i don't know what to do, I want him to fall back in love with me!! I know for sure he doesn't love me, or like me for that matter. His best friend, who has become really good friends with me has been really honest with me, he said that the girl that my exboyfriend started dating after me had been through what i've been through my exboyfriend told her the same thing " i love you" and then later on said " you've changed, i dont love you anymore " how can he do this to every single girl he dates, it hurts, i know you all will judge him by that, but i really want him, i could seriously imagine myself marrying him, there is not a moment in the day that goes by that i do not think of him, its been 7 months since we dated, and we dated for only like 2 weeks. our situation was complicated, but i really want him back, how do i make him fall in love with me, yeah i know love is patient blah blah blah. but i need some really practical advice

Answer 1

Y do u choose to set yourself up to be hurt? Why can't u just move on to a guy who will love u and not break your heart? Why can't u just see that this girl is a dog, a heel, a creep and his never gonna change. As long as there's girls out there allowing him to do this to him he's gonna keep doing this, He's not worth it and u should know this.


It u do get back with this guy Ur not gonna be happy because Ur gonna always wonder if this is the day he's gonna break my hear AGAIN

is that what u want u want to be in a relationship with someone who when he feels like will hurt u and don't give a damn about how u feel after doing it a SECOND time.

It makes others hard to feel for someone like u, someone who will go into a relationship with someone SHE OR HE knows is gonna to fell, because the other mate is not worth it

So if that's what u want, all I can say is be prepared to be hurt & unhappy


Oh and if u think u can change him u are wrong and will realize it the hard way.

Answer 2

We've all had broken hearts at one time or another and I can understand where you're coming from. Obviously, this guy has some issues of his own to deal with. From what you've stated, he doesn't seem like he can commit to just one girl and gives each girl the same lines. There's a name for guys like that --- players. I doubt if you would agree with me, but that's the way I see it. And how could you fall in love with a guy after only two weeks? You couldn't possibly have known enough about him in those two weeks to actually call it love; could you? And if he hasn't come back to you after seven months, I don't think he'll be back. Give yourself time to grieve over the loss of this guy and move on with your life. Obviously, he doesn't want to be with you or feel the same way. He's moved on, so why can't you? In time, you'll find someone else who will love you for who you are and appreciate your love for him. This guy's best friend seems to understand and seems to be there for you. You could use his shoulder to cry on. You need good friends right now and he seems to be a good friend. After all, he was honest with you; right? Good luck, girl.

Answer 3

Had i not been in the same situation, i would have answered the same as others have answered to your question.My bfriend of 4 yrs cheated on me,had 2 more gals ...but i still love him...he is my best frend presently..and i keep telling him that i still love him and dont think of anyone else but him...
find out whether ur bf is presently dating any one or is single..be his frend..be his closest frend, make him realise that he did a mistake by breaking off from a gem of a person like you..and he wld come bk...but this can be a very time consuming process..your patience would be tested several times..u wld hv to crush ur ego.wontb able to throw ur attitude at him..are u willing to do so?

Answer 4

first off how can u b n luv with someone that u have only been with for 2 weeks. U need to get over it hes no good for u or anyone else if he just goes around breaking hearts intentionally. a little advice the next person u hook up with get to know him first b 4 u go and say that u r in luv it could take months or even years before u r in luv with someone.

Answer 5

Been there done that. Time to move on. This will make you stronger. You can always love him, but you should find a better man who really loves you and will respect you. Save yourself from further heart ache and move on. The pain will go away, it takes time. I wish you the best.

Answer 6

u need to think and stop being so damn stupid. get a real man. if you act like you aint worth nothing more then guess what you aint gon get nothing more all you will get is losers like him but hey if losers float your boat go ahead and keep making an *** out of yourself because that is exactly what you are doing. its obviously not meant to be just move on and find someone who actually wants the love from you. anyways you cant be in love if the othe rperson aint in love with you it doesnt work like that hun. if you think you can handle a REAL MAN email me at [e-mail] we can talk okay.

Answer 7

get a new boyfriend and try to get over him i know it's not easy but you have to get on with your life because he will continue to play and womanize females so it is better you know now than later because it is in your best interest and remember there is always someone better for you just be patient the right one will come and you cant make someone fall in love with you cause you want them to it doesnt work like that im telling you this for your own good GET OVER HIM it is better for you and STOP TRYING TO GET HIM BACK because he said he doesnt love you there are better fish in the sea

Answer 8

there's no point holding on to this anymore since he treats every girl like this. let go and move on. life goes on no matter what. there's nothing you can do to keep him to yourself. love concerns both parties. it wont work if you want to make him fall in love with you, at least you know it now. i believe there's other better guys out there waiting for you. :)

Answer 9

why should you falling love with someone that have hurt ed yourself?once he hurt you,he will hurt you next time... it is not impossible... i don't think he is a nice guy. just look what he has done to you and other women.man is not one.you can find other man that maybe better than him.i know is is hard.but try, ok?good luck... may God always bless you...

Answer 10

You should leave him. Im a guy & I know its hard to change ( im not like that ) but yeah you loved him & what he does is to do you wrong. Girl you deserve better & plus thier is more fish in the sea. L.O.L