2006-06-24 03:20:55 · 9 answers · asked by scrumtiousapplelissa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey girl, I totally feel you as do many girl on here I am sure. Well I will tell you what I did. My ex left me for my best friend. My best friend and I am still best friends and my ex and I am still somewhat cool and I will tell you why. I had to put on a face for a lil while showing I didn't care but then I eventually realized that I was better off without him and I could do better so I went out dancing and the attention I got helped me not to think about him. I wouldn't try to find a new boyfriend right away because you need time for you, so go out and have fun, live up the single life and take in all the attention. You'll have a blast and it will show your ex you are independant and are happier without him. It worked for me and 4 months later I am lovin the single life and the happpiest I have ever been. Also lean on your best friend, she'll help you though it and it's a plus if she goes out with you dancin or whatever your preference is. Have fun
2006-06-24 03:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by LouLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend! Take up a hobby. Above all, don't sit around brooding about it. Life is a process that always goes forward, take a deep breath, go out and enjoy the day, and don't look back!
2006-06-24 10:23:37 · answer #2 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try not to think about him,how,it's not easy,simply keep ur self busy by doing some thing interesting and go out ,u will be lucky if u meet some one interesting
2006-06-24 10:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by The decent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to pay him back and you like to fool around hock up with one of his friends and make sure he finds out. That is only if you do not want him back
2006-06-24 10:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by cuffy003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank God you didn't waste 22 years of your life with him.
Have fun!
Get counseling if ya need it, it's healthy!
Forgive him.
Live!
2006-06-24 10:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him slap him and kiss the closest guy lol thats what my x did to me
2006-06-24 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by alex h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat yourself to things..eat ice cream..chocolate..take hot bathes..and realize that this guy was a jerk. and you can find more guys better then him
2006-06-24 10:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by dirtblonde1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and have fun....start dating again
2006-06-24 10:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by stone cold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BANG HIS BUDDIES
2006-06-24 12:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋