Why do women blame the whole male species, when THEY keep choosing the wrong men?

Answer 1

It's feminista dogma talking. Perhaps if more women believed in equality as opposed to feminist superiority (just as more men need to get away from male chauvanism), then we wouldn't have these problems. Each side is blaming the other and nothing gets resolved. Imagine a world where people took responsibility for *themselves*....nah, that's a pipe dream. ;)

Answer 2

Courtship is a dance where the males strut and preen themselves to the females. In humans, it often happens that this involves lies and falsehoods, but women sometimes do the same. Women do blame their mates for shortcomings in providing for them, their offspring and for dalliances with just reason. Women are often insecure because of their mates. They don't know what the next day will bring or when they might be cast aside and find themselves on the street without a career, a job and perhaps a hungry child to feed. Could anyone blame a woman that was so badly wronged to be hateful and full of bitterness. A lot of this comes through the changing customs of very short engagements. Previously the engagement period was of months or years for the couple to know and understand each other before making a marriage, now many young people scarcely wait more than a month or so. Don't blame women, and it is not only the fault of men but blame the new society where hurry and sex and the insipid vows of marriage rein and divorce an easy out. Not every marriage is perfect but in the past people suffered their mistakes and endured, today relationships are terminated because of minor spats over silly problems and both parties feel hurt. Ego plays a major role and if you are dumped you feel agrieved but so does the woman.

Answer 3

Good question! I'm a woman and I've asked myself the same question. I've also been one of those women who's chosen the wrong man, but I haven't for a moment thought of blaming all of mankind for my lapse in judgment. Nor have I thought it was my place to warn all other women about the evil of the whole male species.

But getting to the answer of your question... I think it must be because they just don't want it even imagine that it might be them. It's easier to blame the whole male population than self - right?!?

Answer 4

That comes standard in ALL human beings, and is part of most or all topics. Its human nature (and easier) to blame others for whatever rather than adjust, improve, accept responsibility.

Although many people tend to freely choose certain types of people they'd like to know or be with, regarding your question, very often "playing the game" and not showing ones self as they really are, many people simply make the same mistakes over and over again believing that "This One" is the one or different.

Depending on the person, many times ALL represents each mistake made or bad experience. I don't believe that people in that situation actually believe that ALL are to blame (due to reasoning) but its easier for them that way.

Answer 5

History keeps repeating itself. Speaking from a female perspective. I think we need to stop doing that. All men may have been created equal but they aren't. Sometimes you have to let the past stay in the past. You can't completetly move on and be in a good relationship with a good man, until you have let go of some of the old baggage. We can run off a good man by holding onto this stuff.

Answer 6

Man, that ferry travels both ways bro. I myself, after a few terrible breakups, I have said to myself,and even aloud, how I wish that I could stop dating these shallow damn woman, and find someone a little less psychotic. I seem to attract the psycho's. I was married to a good one once, but we simply grew apart over time. No body's fault. I think maybe sometimes she might wonder what she was doing with me, oh well.
I recently started dating again after a pretty long hiatus from woman (I survived the psycho from ******' hell) and my current interest is the sweetest woman to ever walk on the planet (next to my dear sweet mother). I think I might have chosen wisely this time, and I can only hope she feels the same way. But as usual, time will be the only way to tell...Heart is back on sleeve

Answer 7

It is easier, I don't blame men, I don't live with them!!!
but it might be because they put expectations on men an don't even communicate the expectations. Relations usually work that way! Women do the same thing to women and I have seen men to this to men.

Answer 8

some women tend to want better, but are targeted by a certain type of man, based on how the woman carries herself. men know vulnerable females with low self esteem and naiveness. so women may think they have chose a better man the next time, but sometimes its a wolf in sheep's clothing.

but also thats when being single is a good thing, because some woman cant live without a man and never take the time to know and love themselves so they become bitter with the decisions they make and blame it on men in general. i personally know- u attract who u are, and i have a (GOOD man)

Answer 9

it is a shame that women blame men but sometimes even when you try to pick a different type they change with in the relationship and turn bad. I don't know if it is a childhood thing where women pick guys who cheat or are abusive because there is some underlying sub conscience drama going on with in the woman.

Answer 10

I couldn't agree more. I hate when my species does that. Just because there are a few bad apples out there doesn't mean the whole tree is loaded with them. That's why we have brains. To be able to pick and choose the good ones.

Answer 11

Not all women blame the males. there are few and far between good ones left any way guy or girl. It takes a sophisticated morally good woman to find the same in a man. They won't ever complain.