how can i get a female to trust me that i will never cheat on her at all i have never cheated on anybody i been with they have cheated n me tho but i jus don kno what to do
2006-06-24 02:47:22 · 14 answers · asked by crazyinlove9117 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just be there for her when she needs you..Do something for her that she would not expect from you..something to knock her off her feet.
2006-06-25 05:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Some women that have been hurt before, might incorrectly blame ALL men as if they would do the same.
You need to explain to the woman you are interested in, that her lumping all men's behavior together as the same,
would be as wrong as you lumping all women's behavior as all the same. Tell her clearly, that she needs to not be unfair, and judge each person by what they "prove" themselves to be. Tell her to not throw her heart out so quickly, and wait and see how well she is treated. Give some trusts, until the person proves they can not be trusted.
If she does that, including the part about not throwing her heart out there too quickly, then she can relax, go out with you, and have fun, and slowly begin a good relationship with you that is more comfortable for her. And then in time, as her trust in you proves to be worthy, then she can allow herself to care more.
Love is all about several elements; one of the big one's is TRUST. There is also importantly RESPECT, BEST-FRIENDSHIP, and LUST. You all that to make a really good relationship. If some of these important things are lacking, then the relationship will falter. If they are all there, then the relationship can be very loving for a very long time.
I wish you both LOVE
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2006-06-24 09:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that's a hard one.. and a topic me and my man were having last night... i mean i trust him, (considering i just said yes to marrying him one would hope i trust him) but i am insecure... i know about his past and hes been very very honest, and i also know that i ha vent until now not been cheated on by my partner, and as much as i know he loves me and he wont do it there's that little bit of me that is just hoping praying that the rest of me is right and that he really wont cheat and hurt me like all the rest did... its a voice i have to choose to ignore, and that has little hissy fits about stupid things, but he knows my past and why i have that nagging insecurity that's says Ive never been good enough before whats changed now... just be patient... show her you love her and that u understand, talk to her about why shes insecure, then maybe you'll understand where shes coming from better.. and from understanding and accepting each other insecurities and all the relationship can only get stronger...
2006-06-24 11:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u pick the right person , she'll definitely loves u from all her heart so don't mention in front of her something that has to do with not cheating on her coz u 'll make her suspect it and she's gonna ask herself why did he talk about it , maybe he did something wrong and wanted to appologize not directly , even if u have good intentions ,we just suspect it . so all u have to do is stand by her side , make her laugh and let her feel that she's perfect in ur eyes and believe me she'll never mistrust u ...
2006-06-24 09:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep letting her know that you won't, and be patient. Almost everyone does cheat these days, and that's just wrong. I am blessed that me and my other half, have not gone that route since we have been together (6 years), and I try to enjoy each day together!
2006-06-24 09:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body can be sure of it. So stop wasting time in convincing them. Just enjoy this moment n stop worrying about future.
2006-06-24 10:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing they are insecure because of past relationships and simple don't trust any man or you are being sneaky and telling lies to them which causes them not to trust them or maybe they are just immature
2006-06-24 09:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by leo29sexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to do anything as such.. just b honest n faithful to her as well as urself n she will herself realise ur worth... it will ofcourse take some time bcoz trust comes only with time... so all u have to do is just b yrself...
2006-06-24 10:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by kanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how it iz be urself and be truthful
2006-06-24 10:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get anyone to trust you... trust is earned... and must be proven and tested in time...
2006-06-24 09:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by alecks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋