I treat woman equally like man as a fully human being . I am very polite and nice . But , I see that no waman feel interested to me . On the other hand I know some man who treats women badly . These man said to me that the consider women only as a sexual machine . They are dominant and jerk , aggresive . But lots of women feel attraction towards them . They have sex with lots of woman. But I never found oppertunity to sex and affair. This is why I consider to change my personality to dominant and aggersive to woman . I decided to treat women babdly . What is your coment ? Do you support my decision ?
2006-06-24 02:31:56 · 8 answers · asked by Bluelover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fake it unltil you make it
2006-06-24 02:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all you want is sex and to play a role go ahead, but if your looking for a real relationship Dont do it. You see you can't hide who you really are. Women would see thru it. My husband treats me equally and is very polite and nice. I had dated many men before him and they all treated me horribly. I wanted to be treated well and fell inlove with my husband for the long term. Those other guys were just short term things. If you have not found lots of sex and affair its not cause your not sexy or a great guy to be with....its cause your relationship material. If you have not found a woman who is interested your just looking in the wrong place. I would be upfront about what you want. Instead of treating a woman poorly...do something adventurous or aggressive. That is a turn on too.
2006-06-24 09:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by m0mmatcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. . .there is a big difference in being a dominant man and being nasty to women. A woman's biggest need is to be cherished, but I think a close second is to feel protected even from herself. I think women who are attracted to bad boys are actually looking for a strong male who won't let themselves be used as a doormat. If a woman knows she can get away with anything with her man, she'll lose respect for him (which is the biggest need for men). Read "Man of Steel and Velvet" to learn how to get that balance between too sweet and too rough. Also, you could join some of the Yahoo sites dealing with dominant men. There is one called Dominant Men Submissive Women that has lots of doms on it that seem to have a balance going. There is also a website called Patriarch's Path. It is a Christian website and it has alot of advice for men who want to be the heads of their households. (If you're not a Christian you may not like the site.)
2006-06-24 09:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not find the woman of your dreams who will treat YOU with respect if you don't treat them the same way. You will attract women who have mental issues. If you are genuine, honest, caring, thoughtful, and pretty much reflect in your behavior those those qualities that you wish to attract, you will have better luck. Women don't want jerks for the long term. They want someone that won't embarress them when they introduce them to the important people in their lives.
2006-06-24 09:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by taintedfriskies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've seen this a lot too and I hate to admit it but I used to be one of those women.
I think that we women talk the talk but don't walk the walk. We talk about wanting this or that in a man but when it's in front of us we no longer want it.
Don't change who you are just yet though. Maybe you just need to be a little more forward with women. Let them know that you're a nice guy but you won't tolerate being walked all over. Speak up and don't be used as a door mat....that's unattractive in men AND women. And don't be "whipped"....don't cater to her EVERY whim.
Women like men who are MEN...you know what...the best way for me to explain what women want from men would be to tell you to go buy a romance novel and READ it!! :) We don't want to be abused but we want...well...just go buy a romance book...trust me, you won't be sorry. :)
2006-06-24 09:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by berkeleygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..game playing is wrong..not all women want a guy like that..I know for a fact that I don't..you're obviously going after the wrong type of woman..try going for a woman you wouldn't normally go for...that may be the key to finding the perfect one for you.
2006-06-24 09:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard.
The best thing you can possably do for you and for others is find out who you are. Dont change what you think is right just for some action!.
2006-06-24 09:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rada2017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no honey... just be your self and dont look to your friends.. your true love will come ... when your not looking...
2006-06-24 09:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋