ok i was wondering what you would do in my situation i have baby girl by my ex and i have a boy on the way with my present and she is a survivor of abuse and right now she is recovering and she needs alot of support she is married but is planning to get a divorce but doesnt have the money she needs to go to thereapy but dont have the money i am trying to help every way i can but i always screw it up somehow i say the wrong thing i do something wrong and jus recently she was talking about getting back with her husband but so i was going to move out they were gonna get to gether and the rest but she ended up not gettin with him after i got a place and i ended up moving i want to go back to her place but i dont know what to do with mine i got it from my boss at work and it is a traier i pay lot rent but i bought the trailer i want to b there for her and support her but i keep makin her mad then we talk she calms down and we get better we have atleast one fght a daybutwealwaysstaytogether
2006-06-24 02:09:29 · 5 answers · asked by crazyinlove9117 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am a guy
2006-06-24 02:14:57 · update #1
Have you ever been to school? There was not one full stop or coma in all of that so, theoricly, we would of all turned blue if we all read that properley.
Just try to be as nice as you can to her, and when she needs her space try to leave her alone.
Book a babysitter and try to take her out with a couple of friends and make shure she has a great time.
2006-06-24 03:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well the fighting is not good...and you need to learn how to support & communicate w/one another..it's not a one-way street. She may have been in an abusive situation, but she needs to talk to someone/probably seek some professional counseling. You shouldn't be anyone's scapegoat. You need love & consideration as well. You can wind up being just as abused by an abused victim. Being in a relationship with an abused person is difficult to say the least, and requires lots of patience, energy..time and understanding. If she is worth it and you are willing to put the effort forth...you may have a chance. But it takes two. Maybe she would consider counseling, or a support group where you could both vocalize your thoughts, your needs? Fighting is not healthy and eventually can destroy a good thing. She needs to learn to appreciate you too, and not take advantage of you, this will take a committment from her also.
Good luck, T
2006-06-24 09:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by tula_p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock yourself in that trailer and if you're contemplating going out, just remember what happens when you mess around with a married woman. It'll bring you more problems than you ever thought possible.
2006-06-24 09:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey you should move on she will bring you nothing but heartache... keep your new place so you will have a place for your son to visit with you...normal people dont fight everyday...
2006-06-24 09:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill him with kindness and see what he does be kind and kinder just kill him with it
2006-06-24 09:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋