My friend is getting married, and we’re celebrating in a big way. Is having a pre bachelorette party, the bachelorette party, and post bachelorette party excessive? Girls just want to have fun!!
2006-06-24 01:50:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Pre bachelorette- Will be in Texas where the Maid of Honor Lives
Bachelorette- in Kentucky where the Bride lives
Post-Bachelorette- In Virginia where the majority of the Bride’s maid’s Live
2006-06-24 02:09:40 · update #1
No, I think it's o.k. I had also 3 parties. Just be sure no one gets in trouble especially the bride.
D.M.
2006-06-24 05:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
I think whatever makes the bride happy and whatever her friends want to do for her is just awesome. I've been married more than once... never had a bachelorette party. It's just a really special way to have fun, celebrate the upcoming nuptials, and show her how much her friends love her :)
2006-06-24 01:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by thegirlwholovedbrains 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the maid of honor and the bridesmaids are all getting married, then NO you shouldn't have the parties for them. The bachelerette party is for the bride. So you should have the party where the bride lives. Might I recommend going to a karaoke bar/club for the bachelerette party? Karaoke bars/clubs are so much fun. It is more fun and cheaper than hiring a stripper :)
2006-06-24 04:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by choosinghappiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you already know the answer.
Yes. Why are you trying to cast a shadow on your friends most important day of her life? Her marriage should need 3 parties to prepare her for this occasion. Even IF he is having three bachelor parties, she should be content with one. Unless this marriage is a bad idea and she feels that she need to be surrounded by her friends and filled with alcohol in order for her to actually go through with it...
Sounds to me like your friend is either, insecure or concerned that she's making the wrong decision... if she's under 25 years old, she is making the wrong decision... but that's another question....
2006-06-24 01:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by ptm8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many does your man have? that's the real question. How many would you let him have too, it ain't fair for you to have 3 and only allow him to have 1. You have to match it up, if he has one, then you have one, or he might take it the wrong way. How would you feel if your man said that he was gonna have 3 bachelor parties, would you be mad.
2006-06-24 01:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see why you would want three, but if everyone is going to be at all three theres no need to have three. But if not everyone can go to one because of it being in another state then why not. It's the bride's wedding.
2006-06-24 05:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by mommy23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live it up, you can go out and celebrate with your friends as much as you like... you are the bride to be. ;-)
2006-06-24 04:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAY WAY WAY WAY to excessive...no need for all that partying..I agree with the poster who said if she needs to party that much she doesn't need to get married...obviously she's not ready.
2006-06-24 02:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Syeira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sounds you're just making sure you have all the basics covered. Great job girl.
2006-06-24 02:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by tiltintam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a post bach. party? no, it's her last chance to have a blast before she is married. live it up!
2006-06-24 01:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by js8incher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ya need to have that much fun...dont get married.
2006-06-24 01:52:54 · answer #11 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋