im 20 yrs old and ive never had any sort of sexual experience. not even kissing. im to be married soon. and like any other girl, id like to be held and loved by my guy, i get nightmares of sex. is it ok... im really scared. im scared of sex. not the pain.
2006-06-24 01:48:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i havent told him as yet...
2006-06-24 01:59:23 · update #1
That is so sweet honey in this day and age you are an angel..... Don't be scared tho honey. Do you love your honey???? I hope so since you are getting married. Sex is actually abeautiful thing between 2 people who love each other. It doesn't really hurt the first inital penatration may but may not as long as you make sure your husband knows your fears. The night of your weeding explore each other don't rush into it you will know when you are ready for him. Sex should not be scary it is what God intended for us to keep on living so he made it enjoyable :) Have you told your honey the way you feel? You really should, you guys need to be able to tlel each other everything. Please talk to him you would be amazed at how much he wants to help you overcome your fears. You could maybe just snuggle a little before. Talking is the most important thing in a marriage.
2006-06-24 02:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it sounds as though the man cares because he hasn't made it an issue before marraige. If he truly loves you he will work with you through the whole thing, even if sex ends up being a very minor role in the marraige. If you are worried about being good or not, that will come with just being a caring person.
2006-06-24 08:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by jollycrapper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its in the family??? have u asked them yet??? if your scared then tell him. if he understands then he truly loves you but if he doesnt care and still wanna have sex then forget about getting married
2006-06-24 08:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you shudnt be afraid of sex!
Its a natural thing that God has allowed a couple to enjoy.
Sex is fun!..^_^
If you think you are afraid of sex, please dont.
One day, when you have sex, you'll know its pleasure!!
GO!!!!^_^
2006-06-24 08:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋