how do u tell ur moms ur pregnant im only 15!
2006-06-24 01:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
But the guy RAPED me
2006-06-24 01:53:05 · update #1
First you need to call the police and put that b**** in jail if he took it with out your saying.Second you have to tell your mom because you will need that support. If you are scared ask someone to be there when you tell your mom.Please believe it it see not your fault if that b**** did this to you.
You will be in my prays. Have a little more faith in your family that loves you.
2006-06-24 02:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by sister 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
That is a touhg one honey it all depends on the type of relationship you and your mom have. I think it must not be that close or you would've told her. Does she have any close friends who could help you with her? I got preg. at 15 also I opted for abortion but my mom's best friend is who I told it made it a lot easy cuz ma was worried that I couldn't talk to her. If not what about a social worker or relative. Have you decided what you are going to do????? 15 is very young to have a baby. There are many options. Adoption is the best but there are others. Make sure you are confident with your decision. It is life changing whatever it is. Good luck honey. I will pray you get thru this the way that is best for you and your child
2006-06-24 08:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kookie M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you go to school? Is there a counsellor or similar there that you can talk to? If not, do you have a friend you can talk to? I see that you said you were raped - I am so sorry .Did you know him? You need to discuss this with someone and maybe they can help you but the main thing is that you were raped - that puts an entirely different slant on things. There's no easy way to say it but see if someone can help. Remember that most of the people who see this site are behind you. Perhaps some of the ladies reading can offer further advice?
2006-06-24 09:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by ezc692 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was pregnant at 15 also. Whether the two of you are close or not she will find out. Find someone that will understand you and that you can trust and that knows how to talk to and handle your mom. Ask them to be there for support when you tell her. And when you tell her just say it. Mom your probally going to be mad about this but...im pregnant. The one thing she will be worried about is if the father will be around and since your of working age are you going to do whats right and be responsable. Assure her that if you do keep the baby you will be as responsable as it takes. And if you have any doubts about not being able to care for the baby then I wouldnt suggest you keep him or her.
2006-06-24 08:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by 420girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a little late getting in on this one, but tell your mom. Tell an adult you trust & report the rape. The sooner the better. If you don't get the support you need go to another adult. Even if you start with your local hospital or police department. Mom's may over react at 1st but come through in the end. You are in my thoughts.
All-Amer- you need to get to someone you trust right away. Though you are old enough to get in the situation your body & mind need all the support they can get. Take care.
2006-06-24 15:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by LaPineian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant at 18 and I know how it feels to have let down your family and friends.Dont try to make it more difficult on yourself by thinking about what you should have done or what happened. Just tell your mom upfront.Trust me she'll be mad at first but then when she realizes what your actually telling her she'll be happy. Just assure her that every thing is going to be okay and if you decide to keep the baby, that you are still going to go to school.Its better to tell her now yourself, rather than to find out later from someone else.
2006-06-24 09:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by s_borichick2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are pregnant?did you go to the doctors to get a urine/blood test?If Yes then have you thought about abortion?Its your body and abortion can be an option.If not,you should tell your mom right away so she can help you prepare for the baby.I was 18 when I had my first child and didn't tell my mom until I was 5 months pregnant.Didn't tell her because I didn't want to dissapoint her but not telling her hurt her more.Please always use condoms...or better yet>stay away from sex until you are out of school.good luck
2006-06-24 08:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by nancyann73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her now while you are still in some degree of control. Will you get a lecture. Better believe it. but you need to get them on your side so the proper decisions can be made as to everyone's future.
I'll bey you a nickle that the father will deny being the father, then cut and run
2006-06-24 08:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to tell her the truth now then wait until you start showing.
Be honest with her. She may be upset for awhile - but once she sees that baby 9 months from now that will all go away.
2006-06-24 12:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by mrsstephaniekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you need to talk to her, sit her down and tell her. I don't knwo what kind of relationship you have with her... but she's going to find out eventually, especially if you carry the baby to term.
Most moms are more hurt, more angry, when they find out their child lied to them/hid something from them.
2006-06-24 08:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by A Designer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋