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It scares me and i can't stop thinking about it :s

2006-06-24 01:05:59 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

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No, why should you be. Passing away should not scare you believe me I've been there and back I tell you it is not something to be scared about.

2006-06-24 01:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jetty 4 · 7 3

If you can't stop thinking about it and it is affecting your life, you should see a professional counsellor or psychiatrist. Death is part of life but should not be your main focus. Why do you think you are so obsessed with it? Has someone close to you died recently? Me, I am not afraid of death. My mom has the best attitude I've EVER seen - she is looking forward to finding out what is on the next level - like a video game! She is 71 and a minister in the Anglican church, and has had a wonderful full life. I"m 38 and expecting my first child; I don't WANT to die, but if I do I know that something is waiting on the other side. And I must admit I'm curious too!

It is normal to fear death, but not every waking moment. Try to figure out why it's become such a major focus of your life - and good luck.

2006-06-24 01:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0 0

What scares you? The unknown or not being with the people you love? Try to look further as to what you are scared of and address it. There are many books to read about this same fear. Find time to talk to your elder relatives and ask them how they feel. Take a poll of friends and soon you'll see that you are probably normal. Learn that the more information you have on anything, the more you can resolve your viewpoint and be in control. It may turn out to be a good exercise to help you with some life challenge down the road.

2006-06-24 01:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I was scared but no more. I said a prayer for you.


Read this it will help you: -

A sick man turned to his doctor,
as he was preparing to leave the examination room and said,
"Doctor, I am afraid to die.
Tell me what lies on the other side."

Very quietly, the doctor said, "I don't know."

"You don't know?
You, a Christian man, do not know what is on the other side?"

The doctor was holding the handle of the door;
on the other side came a sound of scratching and whining,
and as he opened the door,
a dog sprang into the room
and leaped on him with an eager show of gladness.

Turning to the patient, the doctor said,
"Did you notice my dog?
He's never been in this room before.
He didn't know what was inside.
He knew nothing except that his master was here,
and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear.
I know little of what is on the other side of death,
but I do know one thing...
I know my Master is there and that is enough."

May today there be peace within you.
May you trust God that you are exactly
where you are meant to be.

2006-06-25 05:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by ddivvi 3 · 0 0

When I was younger, I used to be scared of death.
But now, I realized- its a cycle. What's birth if there is no death?
How is there a beginning, when there's no ending?
So, we know that death is inevitable, and that it will happen to everyone- unless you are a god, or immortal.
But don't think of death as "death" because our soul keeps going, its like throwing some clothes away and getting new ones.

2006-06-24 03:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not at all. It's a natural part of life. Actually, I'll be quite interested to see if my thoughts about after life are true.

I always try to put death into prospective. I was with my Mom when she died, and it was not as frightening as I thought it would be. It was sad, but not scary. Five minutes later, I took the elevator to the maternity ward and looked at the babies for about a half hour. It made me appreciate the natural order of things. We're here, we live, we die. If you do the middle part right, the end part isn't so bad.

2006-06-24 01:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0 0

No I'm not scared of death. At times I welcome it!! I only have 1 friend. My friend lives over 400 miles away. So a good visit is really hard to do. I have family but we're not that close. Never have been. I use to be able to talk to my mom about anything, She passed away in 1999. I miss her very much. Now I have no one to talk to about my problems. I can hardly wait to see my mother again. When I'm feeling really down my mom comes to me in my dreams I wake up feeling a little better. I'm still a fairly young man. But I'm ready to go home.

2006-06-24 01:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by numbr1slotman1 3 · 0 0

I can honestly say that I have never been scared of dying, it's the way in which I would die that does scare me.As for death of other people I care about yes it scares me so bad to think of them dying

2006-06-24 01:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Texas 5 · 0 0

It bothers me too. But I realize that you can't let it consume your life. It is inevitable, but you can take some comfort in what Albert Einstein ( a pretty smart fellow) said " Humans are made up of pure energy and pure energy cannot die, but must exist in some form". So I guess the answer is to hope that that is a pleasant alternative. I do believe that there is more to this life than what we see in front of us. But I don't think that we are developed enough intellectually to understand it.

2006-06-24 01:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by LEO W 1 · 0 0

never scared of death saw it more than 5 times.

2006-06-24 02:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by INOTFRIEND 4 · 0 0

Sometimes it does, it depends on the way I might be thinking of how i could die. If I want to die, i want to die a peaceful painless death. But it depends on how I think of things...like a car accident with a train or Semi, a head on collusion with 2 vehicles. All that scares me.

2006-06-24 01:09:13 · answer #11 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0 0

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