When they're on the bed they joke with each other tickle each other etc..which are normal but im scared that something cud go wrong sometimes. As a mother i am worried about it but i cant help it as we have a very small house with only 2 rooms to share.
I want some of your suggestions and future actions on this please...tks..
2006-06-24 00:48:08 · 25 answers · asked by kush99100 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nope they areway too old..one should sleep on the couch or get an infaltabble bed for one of them until you cabn figure something else out..also try a make sure nothin else is going on..there both teens an have ragin hormons an are curious...this could easly turn into incest
2006-06-24 00:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by samantha1989 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, if they were still young as in below 9 its okay but, they r big already... Though u own a small house only, at least try 2 get a mattress or somethin n ask ur son 2 sleep elsewhere its not convenient 2 share e same room wif ur daughter anymore
2006-06-24 01:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your situation with only having two rooms to share, but it is wrong for your daughter and son at their age to be sleeping together. I'm not in any way suggesting that something might happen between the two of them, but they both need their own sleeping space. And privacy!!! Maybe you can your children can think of a Way to kind of put a wall/curtain up to separate and make like two bedrooms for them. They might enjoy that. Oh yes, I think it's great that the two of them get along so well. Good Luck!!1
2006-06-29 20:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by yankeechik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer depends on several factors like your cultural values of your country.presuming that you are living in a developing country, my suggestion is there is nothing wrong in sharing the same bed. i am at a loss to know why you are getting worried about it. nothing bad would happen.their behavior is normal as they are siblings. if you are still having worries, then ask your son to sleep in the same room on a mat.
2006-06-24 02:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not a good idea. I mean, there are other options. If your house is small it's ok that they share a room, but they don't have to share the same bed! Why not bunk beds?
2006-06-24 01:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same bed I'm afraid is not ok , same room isn't even that good because of their age and gender but if its a must then yes they can sleep in the same room just get separate beds and if the rooms are small then just get a bunk bed and that should be fine.
2006-06-24 00:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by to whom it may confide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately the boy should be in his own room and you and
your daughter in the other (is there another partner you did not say)
It would seem a bit odd to outsiders as well.
I can see your point that they have a close bond and you are
very proud of them but they should be separated.
2006-06-24 01:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not OK! You as a mother, can room with your daughter! Or your son can sleep in the couch!
2006-06-24 00:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by searching04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are too old to be in the same bed. it's good that they're close but kids/teens don't always understand the type of boundaries that should lie between siblings. especially at the age they're at, both are curious about their sexuality and kids are just naturally curious about their bodies.....it could get real wierd.
2006-06-24 00:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, you are sick. Separate those children and arrange for some counseling...for the whole family. Small house is no excuse.
I'm going to go scrub my teeth and wash my hands. You make me ill.
2006-06-24 01:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋