my best guy frnd commited suicide bcoz i dont love him. he survived.?

Question

he's in ICU. and i want to say i love him bcoz only when i lost him almost i realized i love him. but shud i tell him that?

Answer 1

I would be afraid of him a little. Maybe he needs a friend more? I do not think that love is main cause of suicide for humans in general. I would encourage him faster to seek help of psychologist. Your behaviour could be just one of all problems he had; if that was the main reason of suicide, I think you may get such kind of blackmail the whole life later and get tired much.

Answer 2

I'm sorry about your friend. The term is actually that he attempted suicide, since he did survive. Emotions are tricky. When you go to visit him, tell him that you realized how deeply you cared about him. Don't say love out of obligation to him.
Sit and really search your heart, then think it through using the pros/cons list on paper. Do you want to see him through his recovery? Do you want to risk this happening again in the future if you get into a really big argument? Suicide is a very selfish act. He will need much therapy, you might also, in order to get past this. God bless you!

Answer 3

I think that you should show that you are concerned yes. I don't believe that you should drag him along and show that there is some sorta of hope that you will be his girlfriend. You need to seriously sit him down and you two have a heart to heart and really tell him how you feel about him. That might help. I want to stress how important it is for your friend and you to seek some sorta of counseling. Good luck I hope everything works out for the best.

Answer 4

Just listen to him. His brain's pretty rattled right now with the intensity of what's going on, and if anything else gets thrown in there he won't be able to get w/e's bothered settled.

Since you really think you love him, show it, don't tell. Be extra affectionate, and if he behaves like he's afraid to ask if you love him - then you can tell him.

Remember: drama = BIG NO NO when dealing with sensitive people. Just be cool.

Answer 5

Yes Yes Yes the girl i want doesent love & belive me i know exactly what he feels cuz when you reach that lvel of love you'll be happy to die for Her & she is the only girl that i'll like so when she tells me i don't love you then my purpess in life has ended why to livve then & he is not nuts for doing that & if you love him he'll never look to another one

Answer 6

There are deeper problems here. That fact that you do, or don't love this person, is their scapegoat reason for trying to commit suicide. The real reason is: they wanted to end their life, and BLAME someone else for it. Don't take too much of this guilt on yourself; Your freind wanted to die. Period..

Answer 7

no, don't confuse love with guilt. you like and care for him as a friend, but now you are a tangle of emotions at almost losing him. what he has done to you is tantamount to emotional blackmail, let some time pass so you can sort out what you really feel.

Answer 8

do u love him as a friend or something more? either way tell him u love him and in what way and just be there for him i reckon there might me more to it than you not loving him the way he wants mabye he needs to talk about stuff just be there for him hope he gets all sorted soon

Answer 9

Tell him that almost loosing him made you realize that you do love him. And that you don't know what you would do if something had happened to him.

Answer 10

Right now just be there for him. He needs to get help him with some issues he has. But let him know that you care deeply for him and that no matter what you will be there for him.