he's alive though and in icu. shud i say i love him bcoz he wudnt stop until he's dead or until i say i love him. and he's not a psycho only an emotional fool.
2006-06-23 23:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by asmita s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
answer ppl answer. pls
2006-06-23 23:52:17 · update #1
he knows why i dont love him. i love sumone else.
2006-06-23 23:56:07 · update #2
but if he loves me so much that he can do this. then why cant i give my life in taking care of him. and i am only 15. he's 16
2006-06-23 23:59:55 · update #3
i care a lot for him. and i want to say that i love him.
2006-06-24 00:04:36 · update #4
dont tell someone you love them because he is trying to use emotional black mail to get you to love him. just make sure he gets the help he needs to help him through it. you would be making a bit mistake if you lie to him and could make things worse for you and him.
2006-06-23 23:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes just being a baby because he cant get what he wants. If he is really attempting suicide though, call the police or 911. You could try to explain to him why you don't feel "that way" about him, that you love him but your not in love with him. I am so sorry that he is doing this to you. No matter what he says or threatens you with, its not your fault. He needs serious help!
2006-06-23 23:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by alyssabeth2304 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you care for him, since it seems that you do:however; you should not tell him you love him, because this would only lead him on. When he is better and ready to talk, sit him down and explain that you dont love him, and then if he hasnt already, ask that he go see a counselor. Always let him know that you are there as a friend, but not as a lover.
2006-06-23 23:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by chance m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person should always be truthful with another person. Lies can only hurt people. No, you should not tell your friend you love him, if you do not. This is leading him on, and you are in turn living a lie.It is best for him to accept that you don't love him in a romantic way. If he still wants to kill himself, that is his choice, you have no control, nor responsibility for what he does. He need professional help to get over his problems.
2006-06-23 23:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth that you don't love him
break all the relashionships with him
he can also harm you
ur family
if u will lie to him that you love him then he will pressurise to marry u
that would be even more worst situation
hey i got it
you are not facing this problem
actually you have to submitt your story
thats y you want some dramatic situation
i think the girl should sacrifice her love for his best friend
and then she will really love him after marriage
but thats the advice only for story
not for real life incident ...........lol
2006-06-23 23:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by reena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, If you don't love him then don't mislead him. If he found out that you did mislead him then the next time he just might succeed with the suicide. Let him know that you care about him and that by him hurting himself it also hurts you. If he truly does love you then he wouldn't want to do anything to hurt you in any way.
2006-06-23 23:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that he tried suicide because of you, then maybe you need a reality check. He may have blamed it on you, he has more problems then just you not saying I love you. Now that he is in I.C.U. the hospital should put him into some kind of counseling. Do NOT blame yourself!
2006-06-23 23:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not responsible for his decisions. Only in silly movies does a woman have the kind of "power over men" that makes them leave their wives or kill themselves. In real life, the men make their own decisions -- and then they, or other people, excuse that man by blaming a woman. It's been happening since Adam said "Lord, the woman you gave me tempted me, and I did eat."
Do not allow yourself to be manipulated or blackmailed by this sort of blame gaming. You are responsible only for your own words and actions, not those of others.
2006-06-24 00:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do anything to save a life, but see that you are not hurting him any further.
Also, be careful not to encourage him to give you more emotional threats in future.
If you are not serious about anything more than just friendship,
do make it clear to him.
Remember most men cheat women in these things.
2006-06-23 23:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lotus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is fool bcoz he died bcoz for you, he is very weak from inside he doesn't have guts to face the reality and died before knowing your feeling.
2006-06-23 23:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by sharjish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋