attraction is just what we were confortable with when we were young.
when we were young we were conforted by hugs, closeness and other things and now when were are older we seek the same things we were confortable with.
do think this is true?
add more details to this theory if you would like.
2006-06-23 23:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think attraction is different for everyone. we all dont think alike so we are not all attracted to the same things or people. beauty is in the eye of the beholder, a very true statement.
2006-06-23 23:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes for me, i was madly in love with a ex girl friend and i mean madly yet she wasnt that attractive below average i would say, then she left me and broke my heart and ever since then my taste in women changed...i only seek after women that looks like her even though they are very unattractive...i am very well aware of this but they make me feel comfortable than the ones categroized as "hott" or "attractive" sometimes i think it is because that i am too cowardly to step out of my comfort zone and move on, i dont think it hurts to try new things but not untill im ready ^_^
2006-06-24 06:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this statement is flawed. Some kids might go through their entire adolescence without getting a hug from their parents or the words "I love you" said to them by their parents. They might get beaten every other day by a parent who is mentally unstable. They only get to find out what lover is all about once they've grown up an moved out. This is not the case for me.
2006-06-24 09:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with "what we are comfortable with" I think it is that hugging, closeness and such provide physical comfort, a kind of secure feeling that can be got no other way. This applies all through our lives. The youngest to the oldest all like a good hug.
2006-06-24 08:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some cases~perhaps. Every person is an Individual, and wants and needs are totally different, even in cases with identical twins. Hypothetically speaking... two different teenage girls are raped in their lives, by different men at different times, one of the girls learns from the experience that this is how to get love, is by sleeping around, it makes her more secure, while the other girl wants nothing to do with sex, she wants to know that if and when she falls in love, that the man is not only there for the "attraction" but he is there for who she is.
2006-06-24 06:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, personally I believe that to be true. Hugs, closeness and love are given free, and mean so much on life's journey.
2006-06-24 10:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by maybirdfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we're younger, its a more innocent affection. but when we get older, and in a relationship, we look for affection on a higher level. to be held in the arms of the one you love, to feel the passion within a kiss.
2006-06-28 04:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Perfectly Flawed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's affection, not attraction. Affection refers to the hugs etc. . . Attraction is what we are drawn to in others.
2006-06-24 06:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am just 17,don't know much but i am surely able to distinguish b/w love and attraction.
and i think any relation is good if it is lifelong,true,honest and based on trust and better would be that your parents know because anything you hide is wrong..
love yourself,your girl and your life,even your age is right..
good luck!
2006-07-05 01:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by mini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to a degree it is. We all seek the things we find comforting. so it doesnt sound unreasonable.
2006-06-24 06:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋