for about 3 months now ive had a friends with benefits relationship going on with this guy. can you actually have sex with a person and not have feeling for them?
2006-06-23 23:25:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, its all great if you can remain friends and not cross those boundaries. Only because some people do expect more and some people get attached very quickly. If that was the case could cause crossing a bridge to burn behind you. Being friends after sex could turn into "never be able to be the same friends" but on the other hand I know people that do it and they are great friends and nothing has changed between them at least I hope it hasn't.....
2006-06-24 22:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what sex is. It's a physical act. It's not making love, that's done when you and the other person love each other.
But I personally don't believe in 'friends with benefits'. I think that making love is a very personal act that should only be shared between two people that love and respect each other. But that's just me - I'm not accusing anyone or making any judgements.
2006-06-24 06:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I suppose you can. But if you are friends and you have the benefits going on too, then I would think there is a good possibility that you can and most likely will over time develope feelings for them.
2006-06-24 06:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the ideal world yes... but here on Earth it happens. I believe that when the human body has sex, a hormone is released which makes you have feelings for the friends in the relationship.
2006-06-24 06:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by The_Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive done it i have a great man friend but we have had sex a few times and i have no relationship type feelings 4 him hes a great friend and the sex was awesome so it happens and i think its ok
2006-06-24 06:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by skinny hot chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men have no problem with no-feelings sex. Women seem to have a hard time with this. Women are more emotional then men.
2006-06-24 06:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can, woman most times cannot, then again, really depends on the individual, but men typically are sexual beings who can separate love and sex.
2006-06-24 06:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by The L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course u have to have feeling if u sleep with them even if its just lust! Friends with benifits r awesome!
2006-06-24 06:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tanya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people do it all the time. when you have sex with someone you dont have feelings for its just for the sex and the pleasure. no attachments and nothing more.
2006-06-24 06:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by crank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fun. I guess it`s possible, at least for a man. Girls attend to be more posessive, so im not so sure about them.
2006-06-24 06:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋