HI, I am here because I need your help. I meet a person in my job in 2004 and after we become a couple. During the relationship, I did not love him, I always treated like ****. I did that because I was in love with my ex. During 2005, we have a lot of trouble, we broke up and we back, broke up and back. He always took good care about me; he was there all the time for me even though I treated like ****. The day of his birthday, I did spent with him and he passed in his own. Now I noticed that I love him so much, that I feel that I cannot see him with other woman except me. I have been losing weight, I was 185 when I was with him and now I am 136. He saw and he said that He can’t be with a person that he doesn’t know. That I am stranger he was with a fatty girl and now I am slender. He said that I have to gain weight to be with me again. However, I don’t want to. I feel sexy, cozy, and secure. I love him a lot, I can’t live with him ( I DON’T THINK SO) but I want him so bad. He always reject me when I want to do love with him but he still said that his in my boyfriend but he never call me, touch me, makes love to me, so what the hell? What should I do? I am getting tired in writing and sending love letters, love balloon, singing love song. Do I have to give up and follow my life? Please help me; I am depressed continuously every day. Thanks.
2006-06-23 21:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by danesaber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to find yourself first. Its really difficult for him to believe that you are the same girl he knew before. Tell him how much you love him that you changed because of him. But always remember that he had already moved on.
Think first before doing some actions. Give time for yourself to realize what you did for him and give him space. If he doesnt comes back, maybe you really deserve it... (because all those years that you treat him)
2006-06-23 23:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by heaven 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in big trouble, you got involved with someone who only likes 'thick' women, now that you are slender he is not excited by you. Leave the jerk I say, because there are many other men in the world that would be happy to have the obvious loving and giving tendencies you seem to have and who would also be just as excited to have a slender woman as you feel being one. Besides, being the way you are is much healthier for you
2006-06-23 21:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he's scared of u. u don't have a clue what u want. when he wanted u u was an *** and in love with ur ex. he moves on now u want him. do u only love the things u can't have? u need to stop and figure out ur self before u can be with someone else.
2006-06-23 22:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is certainly an obsession.
There is no love without sex.
This is only body language in the name of love.
You can call this natural disaster.
Come to your senses fast and start your living afresh.
2006-06-23 21:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u are loosing weight what he might think is that you will find someone else (someone better than him) since u look "SEXY", ... i say... that if you feel comfortable how u r right now, dont listen to him and look for someone else... someone who accepts you the way you are and if you loose more weight... that person can understand and make you feel prettier and more comfortable with who you are... yadamean.
2006-06-23 22:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and if things don't change for the better, look for another BF
2006-06-23 21:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God, you must be kidding. Get a life. Without him.
2006-06-23 21:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to him .. go back to him
2006-07-03 17:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
:s
2006-06-23 21:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by ghadoud2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just marry her......................
2006-06-23 21:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋