A friend and I fool around a lot, everything we do is sexual but without the actually sex. Sex isn't the issue. People often confuse us with a couple or think were dating, but we say 'we are just friends'. The thing is im also dating other guys and girls (im bisexual), but I feel the most sexually comfortable with him. If I got a steady boyfriend, other then him, we would have have to stop, but our friendship would be akward. I really do like him, and I think he feels the same way about me, but the thing is he has a lot of flaws. Drugs,smokes, he's broke, jobless, parties all the time, drinks every night etc. But I really do like him aside his many flaws, he's really caring, spritual, honest, nice and has a great personality. It's just his lifestyle, that bothers me.
What should I do?
2006-06-23 21:28:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-23 22:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that because you aren't dating it is easy going and comfortable. If you become a couple-problems will arise. You listed a lot of his qualities that will ruin the relationship and cause you a lot of grief. He obviously isn't ready to be responsible and you cannot do that for both of you. I'm sure he is a nice guy but if the flaws bother you- that is your intuition throwing up the "caution" signs. Good luck.
2006-06-23 21:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you have a future with a guy just because he s caring and spiritual etc?? The drugs, smoking and drinking is bad enough not to mention the fact that he s jobless.. no offense.
2006-06-23 21:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by alpha107librae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you are relationship crazy I read some of the other questions you posted, I wish I was your age again you sound fantastic, Just take your time be safe and have fun in life. You can't control the world just yourself. Be careful go slow time cures all and answers all questions
2006-07-01 14:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Justa Countryboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first stop dating girls.....and tell me why u girls cant leave without sex.....every one here is for sex....everyone ask abt there boufrend/girlfred.....so just stop it....and hey if u r in search of true frend let the sex goaway from ur mind...and if u want sex ....and only sex...just let frendship goaway dont get sonfused in b/w both...and dont spoile the word frndship....it is the pricesest asset of god to us
2006-06-23 22:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by deepak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes! girl, you'll be flat broke if u date him. you'd be the one who's taking care of the paycheck everytime u go out.
drugs and drinks ???? man ... u gotta run!
2006-06-23 23:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a lucky guy, im sad now. and huh uh
2006-06-23 21:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by JOhNe=mc² 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you DO realize that he is a dead end street, right??
2006-06-24 13:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Ralph G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is o.k make him to mend to your choice. its not a difficult task.
2006-06-23 21:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get into serious realationship
2006-06-23 21:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋