I have this guy friend, were not too close. but weve been subtly flirting with each other since Jan. He had a girlfriend at the time and I had a boyfriend too- but it was 'casual' flirtation. I broke up with my bf, hes still with his gf but he keeps playing me hot and cold. When i try to avoid him to forget my feelings, he finds a way to approach me. What do i do, i really want to get with the guy.
2006-06-23 21:22:28 · 6 answers · asked by michelle9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just pull the guy's collar and ask him in a hot and cold manner ...wat does he wants from u
2006-06-23 21:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get with this guy, the way to do it is to be direct with him. Walk up to him and tell him "I want you". Or if that is too sexual for you, "I want you to be my boyfriend". When he inevitably tells you that he has a girlfriend, look at him in irritation and say, "Get rid of her."
**** him a few times and then don't call him. Ignore him for a few days. Then, spend time with him and be all lovey dovey. Then ignore him again. It's this alternating of hot and cold that makes a person obssessed with someone (just like he has done with you, lol).
2006-06-24 04:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a gf then just let it go, if he wanted more there would be more. But since he has only flirted then maybe he thinks its harmless flirtation and he wants nothing more.
2006-06-24 04:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's just having fun,making his ego bigger knowing u enjoy his flirting! he obviously doesnt have real feelings for u,or he wouldnt be with his girl....and the fact is he is,so leave it alone,u might be the girl at home 1 day ,while ur man is playing with others! if its meant to be,they'll split,and then theres ur chance,until then,brush it off!
2006-06-24 04:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by dawnita0322 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with his girlfriend, then why is he flirting with you?? He is not someone that I would want, unless you like sharing.
Gosh get a clue.
2006-06-24 04:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing less he leaves his girl
2006-06-24 04:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by insertstrawhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋