loud music w/ headphones and blindfold her. feathers and a comb. 10-15 minutes or a whole CD.
2006-06-23 20:45:25
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answered by ? 3
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"...where a man enters a relationship with a woman yet he says upfront he wont share deep feelings with her, maybe hardly talk to her, wont go out in public with her, certainly wont provide for her- basically, the bulk of incentive that interest women to enter into relationships with men-? Men don't even seriously consider asking women to do anything like this." Actually, some men do. That's what's known as friends with benefits. And it seems that the only thing you want is sex, so maybe that type of relationship would be better for you. Just make sure you let your partner know that all you want is to be friends with benefits BEFORE you have relations with her, so she won't think you're leading her on or playing her.
2016-03-15 18:38:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Maximize any physical contact with actual human intimacy. Sex isn't mostly about sex. It is about elegance. A woman must be made to feel important. Emotions mean a great deal, and sincere sensitivity creates a graceful state between a man and a woman. The clitoris is important to pay attention to, but the needs of the heart far outweigh the need for physical stimulation. Combine the sensitivity of the heart with the yearnings of the body and a woman will respond joyfully and enthusiastically to you.
2006-06-23 20:48:41
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answer #3
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answered by Michael D 3
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like beer phart said lick her in the a**. But I've licking in places or kissing places you normally don't go to will freak her out. Try a little fore play licking the back of her legs to the back of her knees. It's about being a freak.
2006-06-23 21:00:52
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answer #4
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answered by mrpuffandstuff 2
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Like everything else, there is no “best” way, because every girl is different.
However, there are some similarities, and some things that most girls prefer.
You will want to slip between her legs and spread them apart, take time kissing down her thighs, and over her mons. Blow warm air over her vulva before pulling away and kissing her other leg or belly. When you get back to her vulva, slip your tongue over her lips, and maybe between them. Make a noise that indicates you are enjoying the experience. Don’t underestimate the importance of the tease.
Once you get started, you can put her legs over your shoulders, or use your shoulders to keep them spread apart. Take a few moments to lick over, around and between both sets of lips. You will want to use the fingers of one hand to spread her lips open to reveal her clitoris, and her vagina. You can dip the fingers of your other hand lightly across her vagina and clitoris to check out how wet she is. If you have done the tease right, she will be. While you are still spreading her lips open, you will want to dip your tongue into her, and lick up towards her clitoris. Be through.
You will want to focus your attention on her clitoris. Start out by closing your lips over her clitoris and suck lightly, or hum softly on it. You will want to use your tongue as much as possible, and keep a steady rhythm – nothing kills a girls orgasm faster than changing technique mid-stream. If your tongue starts to cramp up, you can wiggle it in a different pattern (but keep the rate steady), or you can try a slightly different technique for a moment while you rest your tongue.
Pay attention to your girl, she will let you know what she likes, and what she does not like. Avoid the things she doesn’t like, and keep doing the things she does like. Some girls don’t like direct clitoral stimulation, (though most do) so you will have to be less intense with these girls.
Once the intensity has started to build – you can slip a finger, and then two or possibly more, inside of her. Most girls like the feeling of something inside of them, but it is best to not go crazy and try to stick in your whole hand right away or without knowing that she is into that sort of thing. Just don’t let up on the clitoris, and make sure that your hands are clean, and soft – no rough skin or calluses.
Once she has an orgasm, she will want you to let up pretty quickly, as the whole area becomes very sensitive and any further stimulation can be unpleasant, so get away from the clit, but you can leave your fingers inside of her if you want to, and if she is ok with it – that is sometimes very nice for a little bit. Eventually – after a few moments to a few minutes you will want to slip your fingers out of her too.
That is a basic set of tips – but you will need to experiment with your girl, and develop your own style.
Some additional things to keep in mind:
Girls are pretty self conscious about their bodies and many girls for some irrational reason think that their vulva is dirty or bad, or smelly, and are very embarrassed about having you see it up close, or don’t want you to put your mouth on it – because that will make you dirty or something. If your girl is uncomfortable with you going down on her, make sure that you reassure her that it is something you want to do, and not something that you are doing because you think you “have to.”
Girls are also very insecure about their bodies and are sometimes uncomfortable being seen naked. An easy way to get around this is to sit her in a chair while she is still fully dressed, and slip your head down under her skirt, slip her panties off – if she is wearing any, and go to town. This is also great for a quickie. Or a semi-public place where you might get caught, because she remains fully clothed.
2006-06-23 20:51:45
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answered by ***** 6
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Start with oral sex - make sure you stimulate her and get her really wet. Women take longer to get aroused than men. So, use that to your advantage and play with her. Then, once she's aroused, she'll enjoy everything more because she'll be more sensitive.
Take your time playa.
2006-06-23 20:44:25
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answer #6
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answered by Private Account 5
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make her feel u truly love her and care her and then make love to her .. womens need love and care more then sex once they are emotionally happy they get satisfaction very soon in sex
2006-06-23 20:46:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Make her feel how much you are enjoying her,and that your souls are really bonding together not just a body language.
2006-06-23 20:45:44
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answered by AB 4 3
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Learn the art of good oral, keep your hands moving at all times, compliment her constantly, much forpley before penetration, take your time and enjoy.
2006-06-23 20:44:41
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answered by Paul S 2
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talk to her and ask her what she wants to do. She might want different positions. Talk softly and things will go fine.
2006-06-23 20:45:34
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answered by Teacher 6
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