what do u do 2 get rid of baggage from previous relationships?

Answer 1

Well, unfortunately you can't erase the memories of past relationships. There is always going to be something that reminds you of that person. A good way to bypass the baggage is not to use it against the new love. They don't deserve to be compared to or treated as if they are going to be the same way. Not everyone is the same way. Have a positive outlook on any new relationship and learn from the previous ones.

Answer 2

Start by doing a spring cleaning of all that reminds you of that relationship. It may look extreme but every time you find a photo or someting linked to the other person, you will only hurt so much. So tO avoid this, pls take all those photographs, the key holders, the papers andnotes, the rings all and dispose of them in wahtever way you think just get rid of them.

YOU DONT WANT TO KEEP FINDNG A CUTE PIC OF YR EX SO BELIEVE ME, TEAR DOWN AND DISPOSE. MEMORIES KILL.
Do yourself a huge favor and understand this one.

At those moments when you feel so weak about it and want to contact the other person or start feeling victimized and believing in suicide or soemthing extreme, get help from a friend first. Or know that time does heal wounds, and though we often hear it we dont always know what is the msg.

Make a list of all the things that person did to you that annoyed you, if you see more of the "bad" than the good you will arrive at same reason why you are bagging it all up. There was probably more bad than good in the relation. So keep yr list handy for those days when you get weak.

Change environments even house or apt if you can, it will all bring memories of the other person unless you major decorate all differently or move elsewehre. Which is always a great start if you ask me, I've been there.

Even those little gifts which meant the world, that the ex gave you, dump them all. Or give them to somebody you will never see.
The least associations you make with past memoirs the better you are on yr way to n o baggage from nothing coz you have moved on.

Make friends withthose who are not yr ex's friends. YOu have to make space trully , so your heart doesnt get hurt you have to not hear it from yr ex's friends.

Make new friends and cheer up you have a whole world of good people out there. Say a good deep prayer to God , He loves you and will help you in all the way. I know He has done it for me time and time and time and time again. All He asks is that we leave all to HIM and we are allright. Dont ever doubt. Even with the baggage from yr past relation HE will help you heal a lot more than any recommendation here.

If you dont believe in God. Give HIM a try. HE won't dissapoint you.

I know what I am saying.

FEEL EVERY SINGLE THING BEING A "PIECE OF FREEDOM" FROM TIRANNY AND AN Y OTHER BAD INFLUENCE FROM YR EX... LOOK AT IT THAT WAY. And if its that the ex didnt stay with you but you still love that person, think real and know the ex left and had he/she loved you he/d not had done that.

True love never fails and leave. so look for true love for an everlasting relation. If that is what you want.

Answer 3

you erase memory through superior firepower.

Answer 4

let go and let be!