I think this English girl Sara is just eliminating people whom she doesnt like in the class. Because I could vouch for this black girl and I know she did not go near Sara's tool box.Black girl Pam is so depressed she is being ostracised by the whole class excluding just me. I would like to help, give me some idea how?
2006-06-23 19:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by rachel 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
OK, firstly, when you say an English girl, do you mean white girl? English or British is a nationality and I'm sure you know that many different colours of people can be English, as I'm sure your black friend was born and bred in England.
The white girl, is clearly a b**** and possibly racist. Racism is not tolerated in schools, even if white is the majority. The white girl is also committing a criminal offence and your friend is able to involve the police if she thinks incitement to racial hatred is taking place and its likely the white girl will receive a caution.
I would suggest that your friend who is Black (Pam is it?) needs to report this girl to teachers. Being bullied because of your colour or anyother reason is not acceptable. Your friend needs to report this and ensure that any other incidents are recorded and reported right away. She should also tell her parents and they should set up a meeting with the school right away and express their concerns.
The same sort of racial issue happened with my 13 year old niece and it got to the point where the police did get involved and gave this other girl a caution... my niece is a quarter white English, a quarter Asian and half Maltese, but looks white... and she was teased for the Asian part in her.... snide comments about people hating "curry".
Racism should not be tolerated and only by reporting such people and standing up to them can it be stamped out.
Try and be a friend to this girl and support her and stick up for her, that's all you can do.
Good luck to you and your friend.
2006-06-23 20:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what it feels like to be accused of doing something you didn't do. I was once accused of taking someones mobile phone just because I was the last one who supposedly was near it. I had 3 people threaten me in a public place and try to touch me to search me, but no matter how much I protested, they would not accept my answer. I told them I would feel more comfortable with a police officer present but they thought they could take the law into their own hands. I was lucky that day, I did have a lot of friends around me who could vouch for my character. It turns out that when this man went home, he found he had left his mobile phone on charge and not even taken it out with him in the first place. I never did get an apology. Things like that hurt. I cried when I got home, both from anger at being accused and them not believing me and also because of the way I was treated, like a common criminal.
Stand by your friend and do all you can to bring her out of her depression. At least she has one good friend like you. Deep down, you and her know she did not take it. That is one consolation to her conscience. Sara is just a trouble maker!!
2006-06-23 20:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it to a teacher. If you are certain (and you seem to be) that Pam did not steal anything, it needs to be resolved. Having someone accusing people of things they didn't do, is not good for anyone in the class. You'll all be wondering who will be accused of something next.
2006-06-23 19:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by mopargrapeape 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! What a frivolous little arguement. Well, express your feelings to the teacher/class representative. They're reasonable enough there's no way they can't listen to you. That Sara girl sounds like a real prat.
2006-06-23 19:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were the black girl, I would purchase new tweezers and replace the stolen one and reply, "I bought you a new pair of tweezers because you lost your old ones, but I'm not doing it to be nice. You won't stop b*tching about me stealing your things and I just want you to shut the f*ck up because my ears are starting to hurt."
Then I would never be nice or talk to that b*tch again unless she did some serious apologizing.
2006-06-23 20:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
english girl.. or are you just being a !!$!!$!$! bleeping for some white girl.. well just go to sara and tell her to quit being a whiny ***** and keep track of her stuff and not blame everyone for her problems
2006-06-23 19:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher or instructor what is really going on, or tell all the others how much of a jerk this english girl is and hopefully they'll believe you.
2006-06-23 19:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of late now.
Integrity is doing the right thing at the right time.
2006-06-23 19:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by televisionmademewhatiam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her welcome to this thing we call "being black"
2006-06-23 19:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Derrick T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋