I need to know, It is a sin to disobey your parents but if your parents are asking you to do things you dont want to do because you feel it is wrong or you dont feel it is the right thing to do then what do you do?
2006-06-23 19:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by Correl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If your parents are asking you to do things that are illegal you need to call the police! If your parents are asking you to do something you don't want to do because 'You don't want to do it' you better sit down and think very hard about your allowance. I'm not talking just about money. I'm talking too of phone, T.V., car privileges etc. No parent should ever EVER ask their child to do something that is illegal. If you can't call the police because you can't get to a phone, get up and go to a friend and make them take you to the police station. But, like I said before, if it's just a matter of them attempting to instill responsibility in you, you really need to think about your choices. Good luck and be safe!
2006-06-23 19:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by wonderingmom 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
it depends on if the disobey s against your moral belief. If it against what in your heart you feel is wrong..then stand up for it. If you feel that they have a good reason to tell you to not do something..that do not disobey. It may hurt you in the end. Just make sure it is something that you are willing to turn your back on your parents for...never have any support from them again...never be given allowance and love again then fine..go with what you feel is right. It may help them see where you are coming from. But remember...look at all of your options. Even make a pro and con list...it does help, I promise.
2006-06-23 19:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not ok to disobey parents in any way whether it is right or wrong- such a good relation cannot be break by disobeying ,One shoud discuss the matter in such a way that there never arise no misunderstanding, try as best, otherwise make the decision calmand quiet ly -not disobeying
2006-06-23 19:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents asked you to kill someone - would you do it?
If your parents asked you to kill yourself - would you do it?
This is one of those times in your life that will define you as an adult. It is a rite of passage. To obey or to disobey?
If you do not feel it is right, what they are asking you to do - talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. Approach the situation like an adult and you will (or at least you should be) treated like an adult and they will have to respect your decision.
Do what is right in your heart. Just because they are your parents, doesn't mean that they are always right. They are human just like you and all humans make mistakes.
2006-06-23 19:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Melissa♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is asking you to do something that is either ethically or legally wrong, then don't do it, no matter who is asking/telling you to do it. Depending on the circumstances, it may also be in your best interests, and the best interests of others, to involve the authorities or another responsible adult. Basically what I am trying to say is, listen to what your gut tells you. Your instincts are generally right, and if your instincts are telling you that something is wrong and you shouldn't be doing it, then you probably shouldn't. If you think that you need help, don't be afraid to go to the police, another family member or your pastor.
2006-06-23 19:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing what parents tell you isnt always the best thing they only what you to do what they tell you only you can make your own path if you disagree with something they do there is nothing wrong with telling them just because they are older then you doesnt mean they can take advantage of it you are a human being not a puppet that can be trained to do things that they whant you to do thay are only suppossed to guide you to the door but you must open it its your life your path no one elses of course you must respect them but only if they respect you because if they are desrespectful then there is no reason for you to be respectful.
2006-06-23 19:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Leviathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romans 3:23 NIV for all have sinned and fall short of the enormous enormous difference of God, in my opinion i do not understand anybody that hasn't disobeyed something their father and mom have suggested. And it completely okay to disobey the colleges rule God isn't there. submit to in innovations he become taken out so as no longer to offend anybody yet in my opinion that offends me
2016-11-15 04:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by poissant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's never. believe me or not. parents are physical forms of God. parents are given as much respect as God. so remember before becoming a really bad girl, naugfhty girl, remember that if you disobey parents, you disobey God.
2006-06-23 19:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit your parents down and express to them how you feel, so you will not have to disobey them,and if that doesn't go well, try speaking with your minister, rev father or whoever you feel is the religious authority figure in all your lives.
2006-06-23 19:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the request is illegal, immoral or unethical. If you are an adult, you have the right to disagree with them with no explanation required. Some parents never treat their offspring like adults though so it's tough. Good luck.
2006-06-23 19:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋