Is my son heading for incest or am thinking wrong ?

Question

Am a divorced(40 year old lady) for the past 10 years living with my single son(20).
last year I found a lot of incest stories and pictures(mother-son) on his computer.I took him to psychiatrist and then he got normal.
Last month I encoutered an accident due to which I got fracture on my hands .Well he took great care of mine like cooking food,giving me medicines on time,take care of house etc.But while changing my inner clothes(at the time of accident) he used to touch me on my private parts. We used to kiss each other before sleep since his childhood but from that accident he is giving me long kisses.

Is he normal, or am thinking wrong(i.e incest).

as I got fracture on my hand for a month, so I have to ask him to change my clothes(which include inner too).

Answer 1

I mean this in the most professional way:

That is one F'd up kid. Get him help again.

Answer 2

I'm sorry to say this but there is something wrong in the way he see's your relationship.

Next time he does something that worries you, tell him how much you love him, but AS HIS MOTHER and that is the way it is only ever going to be.

A mother's love is always unconditional, but you have to draw the line somewhere. I can understand that you needed help, but is there not a friend who can come and stay for a while. He might get the message that way.

Anyway, at the end of the day, it's going to have to be you who tells him that what he is thinking and feeling is totally wrong. If word of this gets out, both of you will be branded perverts. Try to make him put a stop to it before it gets out of hand.

I also think it is very strange for a grown man to buy his mother an England bikini and expect her to go to the beach with him.

Good luck.

Answer 3

First of all, how do you know he "got normal?" Maybe he just learned how to hide his illness from you in fear of you taking him back to the psychiatrists office. I suggest that you hire a nurse to help you if possible, and return your son to therapy ASAP. It sounds like your son may have been abused by a family member while he was growing up. I would have a serious talk with him, because next he could end up touching a child and going to prison. Get him the help he needs. This behavior is definitely NOT normal... the fact that you even have to ask this question should tell you something.

Answer 4

OK i can understand the first part finding the stories and such because that maybe what got him off back then but letting him touch and kiss u? u seriously need to get him some help and not let him touch you and the kiss should probably be reduced to a hug if your gonna do anything at night

Answer 5

Okay mom, obviously you and your son BOTH need to see a psychologist because you're probably thinking about it at the same time. Why are you letting your son change your clothing? Touching you in your private area and kissing you long and now you're asking us what to do? You should know what to do...

You southern folks just don't get out of the house enough...

Answer 6

yes he is...not only does your son need to seek help but you do as well....you need to tell thec ounsler everything yourself an then let him get in his story....he needs help an if he doesnt get it this will go further plus when he has children he will end up rapin an having incest with them..he is not normal...also have a friend or just try an change your clothes yourself..an 3why are you kissing..stop that..if anything give a peck on the check..or hug.....also do you know what is causin him to have these thoughts?..most likly he was probably raped or touched when he was yonger..might have been by his friends parents or thee male you were seein before...you need to seek professional help asap..before this goes to far

Answer 7

Your son is 20 years old. Tell him to move out, find a girlfriend his own age; then hire a professional nurse to take care of you.
That's my advice to you if you're uncomfortable with the situation.

On the other hand, since you seem to accept the idea of his taking care of you, and are unsure whether his apparent feelings of attraction are okay--and you're both consenting adults...(Oh, I'm going to get in so much trouble for this!!!)

Answer 8

This seems very abnormal. I don't think a son should have those kind of feelings toward a mother.

Incest stories? Touching you on your private parts? Long kisses?

This seems like overwhelming evidence. This is one of the most disturbing things I've ever read. I think this even makes Jerry Springer look tame.

Answer 9

First of all, I would find a friend to help you change your clothes if you cannot do it yourself. I think that it is unappropiate for him to help you change your clothes.
Second, he needs a girlfriend. I think that if he has any romatic feelings towards you, you are just fueling the fire by having him help you so much. You should incourage your son to have his own life, and show him your independence from him. It sounds to me that something is wrong. If you want him to have a bright normal future, do something about it NOW.

Answer 10

I say give youself to him, I mean you're both are consenting adults. why not give him a try, you just might like it. He may just be the best lover you have ever had. At twenty he doesn't need a mother anymore, and you sound like you need a man in your life. you just might find that you were meant for each other, soul mates that is. So let him f*ck you raw every night and enjoy what he has to give. Good luck.

Answer 11

Your son needs to see psychiatrist again. It not normal for a son to give long kiss to mom.
You should not let him touch your private parts just because he help you change when you were disabled.

You son needs a girlfriend and needs to move out.