how do make them think dat ur cooler than them.
2006-06-23 19:30:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Im not completely sure, but it seems I remember kids hanging out together with kids that were into the same activities and interests.
For instance the cheerleaders hung out together, and the kids on the debate team ate lunch together...
I don't think you should focus too much on being in the "popular" group. Just get involved in things you love, join clubs and activities and meet people, and you will probably make friends who you have something in common with. You should worry more about having GOOD Friends, honest friends who wont backstab you and stuff, than having "popular" friends. The goal should be to be happy and have a good time and meet nice people.
2006-06-23 19:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by ivehadit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I was 16 I always tried to be myself, because if the cool popular group doesn't think that you are cool too with the flare that you give to the world then they are not worth impressing. Remember, to be yourself is the truth that opens doors to true friendship. You may try and be someone else or wear the latest styles because that is what you think other people like, but you are doing yourself an injustice and you will not be happy because that other person may be you in imitation, but the real you waits to be discovered. It all takes time. You will see.
2006-06-24 02:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even worry about it. The popular groups at school are a waste of time, and they don't mean crap. You go to school to learn and get your education. When you leave school and go out into the real world, what you learn will make a world of difference, not being popular at all. Almost everyone I knew who was popular in school is either dead, jailed, divorced, or bitter in some way or another.
2006-06-24 02:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Captain X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I can speak from a lot of hard, painful experience that you should *never* try to "fit into" a group. If you try to be other than exactly what you are, how you see yourself, any social interaction you have will be forced and fake. I know it's hard to hear, but you just need to be yourself, and the people who count will find their way into your life. Just like comedian Joel Hodgson said of his group working on the hit comedy show Mystery Science Theater 3000, "We never said 'Who will get this?' We said 'The right people will get this.'" Look for the right people, dear. You'll find them. =)
2006-06-24 02:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to worry so much about what frivolous, unimportant people that won't help you rise, but quite possibly help you fall in life, think about you? If you know you're cooler than them, let them discover that on their own time, cuz you already know that. Believe me, you think you need people to think so highly of you, but why not focus on the thoughts of your teachers, your parents, your boyfriend...but f*** what kids at school think of you. If you focus on yourself, they'll see the light in you that's illuminating the darkness they're in, so why plunge yourself into darkness?
2006-06-24 02:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by all_this_yella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be like everyone else!! Just be yourself, and that's the coolest thing anyone can do. The popular people aren't very interesting and they're kind of boring.
2006-06-24 02:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO WORRY ABOUT THEN THAT SWEETIE!!! HONESTLY!! THEY ARE PROBABLY JUST A BUNCH OF JERKS WHO YOU REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH OR CARE WHAT THEY THINK CAUSE IT'S NOT THE SMARTEST MOST INTELLIGENT THINGS...I WAS IN A " POPULAR " GROUP IN HIGHSCHOOL ( I WAS PROM QUEEN & MY BEST FRIEND WAS HOMECOMING QUEEN ) IT'S NOT EVERYTHING IT'S MADE UP TO BE OR LOOKS LIKE....WHO CARES WHAT THEY THINK??? BE YOURSELF AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE ...YOU'LL BE GLAD LATER ON THAT YOU WERE.
2006-06-24 02:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if your in the most popular group as long as you have a group of friends that you have fun with and you can be your self around.
2006-06-24 02:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Scotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to spell, use your Shift Key and try to speak intelligently.
2006-06-24 02:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by spudric13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act cool your self n wear the freshest clothes n stuff if u have it.
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2006-06-24 02:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Melanie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋