If you were dying,and could only pass on a note to your kids what would you write in it.?

Question

What would you tell them?What could be the most valuable little note for them?Can we really make a difference with a note?

Type the contents of the note in quotes please.Thankyou so much for sharing ty

Its a beautiful world,and there is so much good out there your answers have shown me that once more.Thank you.

Answer 1

Be brave

Answer 2

My note:

Dear my wonderful children,

Mommy wants you to know that I love you. Just because I am leaving this earth physical don't think that I won't be with you in your heart, thoughts, and dreams. I will always be by your side to help you with whatever I can. Keep making me proud and know that we will see each other again some day. Don't let me leaving get you down know that I did have a wonderful life while I was on this earth. Celebrate my life don't greave over my parting this earth. Take care of each other because that is all you have left. If you ever need me just know I am near and don't be afraid to talk to me whenever you feel the need. I will find a way to get my answer back to you.

Love you always,

Mommy

Answer 3

To my dearest children,
With all my heart i hereby declare that I love you. Life wouldn't be the same without you and all the memories you have given me. I now pass on knowing full well that i can only leave you with my words here. I leave you softly knowing that you cannot beg me stay for any more length of time. After a while you learn the subtle difference betweem holding a hand and chaining a soul. You learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises. You learn that loving doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't always mean security, and you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. After a while you learn to build all your dreams on today because tomorrows ground is to uncertain for dreams, and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while you learn to accept your defeats with your head held with the grace of a woman and not the grief of a child. After a while you learn to plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of waiting for someone else to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really are strong, that you really do have self worth, and you can endure, and you learn and learn, with every "goodbye" you learn. As I look back on all that's happened -- you growing up, us growing together, changing you, changing me -- there were times when we dreamed together, when we laughed and cried together. As I look back on those days, I realize how much I'll truly miss you and how much I truly love you. The past may be gone forever...and what the future holds, our todays make the memories of tomorrow. So, my children, it is with all my heart that I send you my love, hoping that you'll always carry my smile with you, for all we have meant to each other and for what the future may hold for you. Good-bye my kids I love so dear; I am not dead but sleeping here. I was not yours, but Christ’s alone; He loved me best, and he took me home.
Affectionately yours,
Your loving father.

Answer 4

From my perspective, under my own circumstances, would be entirely different from those of someone who was not in their childrens' lives. I mean that's the only reason I can think of that would keep me from telling my children in person, because I would want to see them in the flesh i I were actually dying. There would be no note, if I could help it. I would tell them what I wanted them to know face to face. I think that would make a more lasting impression on them.

Answer 5

Wow, what a question, are you ok? I have a son and a daughter, my daughter is 25, I raised her myself, with no help from mom. If I had to tell her that, I think she would fold, she would kick my ***, and she'd make me live longer. She wouldn't give up till I was gone. That's just because I was a good father to her while she was young. I know.... Everyone hears about the perverts that screw their children, well, I'm not part of that, and I hate the news media for pointing out that there are men out there that do those kind of things. I love my daughter, and she loves me. If anyone ever tried to abuse her, I'd kill them. Her husband knows that. Answer to your question... I LOVE YOU

Answer 6

"I love you more than anything else I've experienced in my life. You made it all worth it. Know that I am so proud of you and there is nothing you can do that will make me think and less or love you less. You mean the world to me, I will be here for you always. Follow your heart and never look back. Trust yourself, Be true to you. I love you my angel."
To my sweet little Anela (4 & 1/2 months old asleep in her crib as I write this) :*)

Answer 7

I would tell her that from the moment of conception she was and always will be my miracle!! I would tell her how proud I am of the person she has become. To know that life and love are eternal, even though I may not be here physically I will always be there to watch over her, to counsel or console her. All she has to do is close her eyes and feel my arms around her, smell my perfume and know I am there. Always and Forever!!!!

Answer 8

What a sad thought. I feel guilty to say that I can't answer this because that is just too sad. But if I were and knew it I would no doubt make them a video and letters and a box full of special things to remember our times together. I would show as much courage as possible but what a sad thought...... I am going to get off of here now and go hug my babies.........

Answer 9

I would tell them I loved them and was proud of them. That they should grow up to be kind and fair and honest. To always try their best and to learn from their mistakes. I would say I was sorry to be missing their growing up but knew that I could trust them to follow the road I started them on and make it to the end as adults that would pass down my love to their children and their children's children by loving their children as much as I loved them. I would say my faith in them would never die and I know they will succeed in life.

Answer 10

I would say, I love you more than this world. Remember to Love, remember to be just you. I will be waiting for you on the other side. Dont worry, and dont cry because mommy wont hurt ever again. I love you always, Mommy

Answer 11

You can make all the difference in the world in my opionion. I think I would tell my kids that I love them and to always follow their dreams. And to never let anybody tell them any different.