when i was a kid in my country a lot of bullies picking on me. so to hold my rage i promise to my self to come back and hunt them. now i think i'm doing that for real.is that a good idea? i'm just teaching bullies a lesson (if i do that).if its not, can you help me from holding my anger.
2006-06-23 18:52:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2006-06-23 19:00:51 · update #1
The bullies will ultimately answer to God for their actions. God says "Vengeance is mine, and I will repay." If you seek vengeance, it could land you in jail, or get you hurt. When God gets vengeance, no one can put Him in jail nor hurt Him. So leave the vengeance to God - He WILL repay. Give your enemies to the LORD. I always say, "They're all yours, LORD!"
2006-06-23 18:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shalom Yerushalayim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds cheesy but you can't fix violence with violence. Its best to move on. There are always going to be bullies in this world because it would be impossible for you to teach every bully a "lesson". Seek counseling to help you overcome your grudge. Good luck.
2006-06-24 01:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by alias1013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hold grudges, you have much better things to do with your mind and your life.
I don't like bullies either, but most people i knew who were bullies when young, have changed.
Many of them get very embarrassed when someone brings up the subject today..
Many of them got bullied themselves later in life.
Many of them got married and today their wives bully them.
The wheel turns, and that attitude brings them big trouble, sooner or later, if they persist.
2006-06-24 02:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Featherman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some way I can relate to your situation. Me and my brother used to have a abusive stepfather who used to abuse us. We live in terror of him everynight. He was a bad alcoholic. In addition, he use to beat our mother. The only thought that gave us satifaction was to kill him when we got older. Well, we got older and as our lives turned for the better, we pretty much forgot about him. I forgave him. When you are moving in a positive productive direction. It does not give you time to look back on the past hurts, because you are experiencieng the joy of life. The key is finding your joy in life right where you are now. Then you will not focus on your past hurts. Enjoying your life now has a way of healing you.
2006-06-24 02:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you retaliate, you have become one of them. Don't let them do this to you. Find a positive way to express your angry energy. Maybe you could take some martial arts classes to help you feel strong within. Be a positive force in the world.
2006-06-24 02:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by vonja05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should not hold on to things man I used to be bullied tell ya what next time a bully hurts you kick his *** thats what I did but do it on the spot NEVER later becaus then they could have changed
2006-06-24 01:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Devon D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although revenge feels REALLY good...its bad.
Im sorry for what they did, but there are other ways of feeling better about yourself. First of all, believe me when i say that they got punished for bulling you, so whatever you do will only come back on you. Second, just breathe and let it all go. Its that easy. burn all ties with them and pretend they never existed....trust me, not only will you feel better, but they will see themselves as what they are...bullies.
Good luck and be happy :)
2006-06-24 02:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Celebrity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. Most people tend to feel bad about things they have done in their past. Ask God to forgive them of there sins and ask him to clear your mind. In the end he will judge.
2006-06-24 01:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the person you used to be...nor are they. What if they have children who depend on them now?
Just seek counselling for your anger.
Good luck.
2006-06-24 02:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dont hurt anyone you sond young cause you dont type like an adult. just ignore them
2006-06-24 01:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋