i just had a stillbirth at 9months but wont another as soon as possible is that wrong and to soon?

Question

is having a baby 2month after wrong 2 my baby that past?

or should i wait?

Answer 1

You NEED to wait until your body recovers from this pregnancy. If not, you or your unborn baby can have complications. Good Luck.

Answer 2

Sorry for your loss. Everyone is different, so it isn't "wrong" to want to try again - just remember that your first child is gone, and the new child is a totally separate person. Some things to consider first. Grief counseling, just to make sure you have dealt with your child's death and are able to move on. And what does your Doctor say? My friend had a similar tragedy, and her Dr told her to wait at least 6 mos to start to try again. It does take the body 2 years to fully recover from the trauma of childbirth, so maybe giving yourself a little more time to heal would be a good idea. Good luck, and again, I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 3

honestly you need to let your body recover from this pregnancy. it takes alot out of a woman during pregnancy as any doctor would tell you. My kids are 19 months apart and my doctor told me that it isn't healthy for a woman to have kids that close together. I still haven't been able to lose my baby weight. But I also have a friend that was in your shoes, she had a stillbirth at 9 months and was pregnant within 3 months she's fine but her baby was premature, and now has to be on oxygen. I'm not saying that this will happen to you. But to be careful ask your doctor for the best advice. Good Luck and God Bless

Answer 4

Not sure how you can have another baby in two months after the stillbirth of your other child.

If you mean getting pregnant again two months later, I would suggest you talk to your OB/GYN since that is the person who knows all the details which caused the still birth.

You can only mourn the loss of a child you cannot wrong them in anyway since this child is no longer living.

Answer 5

I think you should have grief counseling and give yourself time to recover, both physically and mentally from the trauma of giving birth and losing your child. If you were to get pregnant this soon, I think you would be trying to mask your sorrow by looking forward to the birth of another child. While it may help temporarily, in the long run, I think it would be harder on you and your child. Let yourself grieve and go through the painful process of your loss. I'm sure you realize you can never replace your lost baby. Honor your first child by giving yourself time to process your feelings. God bless you and keep you. You have my most sincere condolences. You will never get over the death of your little darling, but you will be able to get past it and move on with your life. You and your baby will be together eventually.

Answer 6

first of all, do what you think is right! don't let everyone tell you it's wrong to want to be a mother, at least you are not some crackwhore who got knocked-up by her pimp and then left her baby by the dumpster! i had some miscarriages and it took me a while to get over them, but honestly, my body couldn't handle the stress of losing some, then carrying another. be careful because if you carried it for that long, you could become anemic and not be strong enough to carry another baby.when you have a baby, it sucks all the vitamins out of you and it may take a while to replenish them, even with a good diet. My advice is do what you think you can handle, but think of yourself first and give yourself time to heal. remember-you have to carry the baby, so do not let anyone make such important choices for you-best wishes, i'm sorry for your loss and i hope you'll soon be as happy as i am now!!!!

Answer 7

well, it's up to you. personally, i couldn't even think about having another baby for about a year after i had a miscarriage at 4 months! It's not necessarily wrong to your baby that has passed on, but I'm pretty sure that any doctor you talk too will tell you it's too hard on your body to get pregnant so soon. I would think it would be best to wait 6 months at least before doing any serious "trying" to get pregnant.

Answer 8

that all depends on if u are ready to have another one. u could be emotionally unstable to have another one i mean u did just lose a baby that u did carry for 9 months that is hard im sure so u also might want to wait to see how u feel in a few months. dont rush i guess im trying to say. im not saying its wrong though to have another one soon

Answer 9

Sorry for your loss but personally I think that it's much too soon. Take time out to grieve for your loss and get your head and heart back together before devoting time to another try. Your body needs time to heal emotionally as well as physically.

Answer 10

no its not wrong its normal to want that i did i think it helps to try again though it wont replace the baby you lost that will always be with you good luck and i am sorry about your loss

Answer 11

This is a personal question. My ob/gyn told us that we could conceive at any time after we lost Joey at 2 months old. He told me that I was already ready physically, but it could take time emotionally. Make the decision that is best for you.