Should I get over my crush that doesn't even know I like him?

Question

This boy in my school was really i never approached him we just graduated 06 and all of my friends knew him every time he came around i could never really talk to just him. One of my best friends gave me his number but since I don't know him what would I look like calling him we're never going to see each othert cause we are going to different highschools I was thinking about calling my friends and have them invite a bunch of our classmates including him to come to the gallery with us do I need to just forget about him ,call him myself,or call him on three way with my friends

Thank you all for your answers I think I may take a lot of them into consideration. But I'm not sure everyone knows what I mean we really don't know eachother personally should I still call?

Answer 1

Don't get over this guy without him knowing how you feel! The love boat only travel to your shores once and it may never come back again. Get up the courage and tell him how you feel =)

Or maybe a friend can do that for you, and let her tell him how you feel. OR if you can be really sweet, just tell him yourself. If he doesn't return those feelings, at least you can rest assured that your feelings are finally being shared =)

All the best!

Answer 2

throw the number away. If you and this guy were meant to hook up, you will eventually. But for the moment, forget about him and enjoy the summer. Open your eyes and mind up to other people that you may come across thru the summer, like a guy at the local swimming pool or at a barbque at a friend's.

Life is too short to spend time worrying about things that we have no control over. Your at an age when life should be filled with crushes and friendships. You are just starting to find out what you really like and what you don't like so much in people. One of these days one of the guys will go past being a crush and turn into a real boy friend but you have to be open to the possiblities that are out there waiting.

Answer 3

Call him and invite him to the gallery. Make you two a couple. Say,


"My friends are meeting at the gallery, and I was wondering if you and I could meet there too. I've wanted to get to know you for a while, but just haven't had time to call."

He'll either say sure or no........but if he says no, see if he wants to do something else....maybe meet for lunch somewhere where you two can talk for a little while......

Good Luck

Answer 4

I think that you need to call him and tell him exactly how you feel. The only way to get that out is if you can explain to him. Tell him why and how long you've liked him. Invite him to go to a movie or on a date sometime. I doesn't hurt to try. Chances are though, you probably won't see him much anymore.

Answer 5

Okay, you can either:

A. Call him and tell him how you feel
B. Do the gallery thingy
C. Never tell him. Never know if he really did like you. Never know if you ever had a chance.

I think we can decide not to choose C....

Answer 6

Forget about him. Don't make an idol out of a man who isn't even old enough to marry you and do all those wonderful things for you that you desire. Don't make an idol out of men period. Men have limitations. Worship God alone.

Answer 7

It'll only be your loss if you dont do anything.
Put up (not out!), or shut up. What's the worst that can happen? How long till you forget about it?

Answer 8

what you should do is call him the worst he can do is say he doesn't like you then you would know. But the more you wait the more hurt it will cause you

Answer 9

you should call him and get to know him because if you don't your going to go your whole life wondering what would have happened if you did approach him.

Answer 10

call him. he may be the one. i lost the one for me and don't want to see it happen to anybody else.