2006-06-23 18:35:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fear of rejection, and given that i'm a person in this position, I can tell you "fear of rejection" is more than just three simple words.
You'd start thinking how the person will react, how does he/she really feel, what if our friendship is ruined, if those feelings aren't returned, will it spread around? if it does return, will he/she want to start a relationship. What if he/she doesn't but I want? What if we start a relationship and it doesn't last? What if he/she isn't my soulmate................
So let's just skip all that endless thoughts with no answers and just CONFESS OUR FEELINGS. Let it out! You'll never know what those answers are until those feelings are shared. Love is not love until it is given away!
2006-06-23 18:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Miss_Perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are afraid of the ultimate rejection. The fact that the person may forever ignore you or feel weird around you afterwards. It's painful =(
2006-06-24 01:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by xdannifenx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there afraid that person wont have the same feelings about them
2006-06-24 01:39:03 · answer #3 · answered by J.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he afraid of the fact if the person don't have the same feeling like he does, it's the biggest fear..
2006-06-24 01:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the way you saying it doesn't make sense> Plus ppl don't wanna get hurt by tht person either, they rather keep it inside.
2006-06-24 01:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by "BadGirl" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to let people know your feeling's because you don't know if that person feels the same way and you can get really hurt so people just rather keep it to themselves .....
2006-06-24 01:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to be vulnerable. When you open yourself up like that you give someone else a certain amount of power over you.
2006-06-24 01:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OO OO I KNOW THIS ONE!
it's cuz we don't want the other person thinking any less of us/thinking we're sensitive/worrying about us.
2006-06-24 01:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They would rather live a lie than confront the truth.
2006-06-24 01:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by Chiron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my personal life, it is because i am gay and may not b accepted by others. depends otherwise with the sexuality and sex of the person.
2006-06-24 01:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋