i was dating this boy for about a year, and we were in love. But as time passed on i discovered that we r diffrent but when i told him about it, he started calling me names and said no guy is going to want a big girl like me. Then he apologize, and asked me out again, what should i do? He says that he love me but i doubt it cuz if he did he would have never said those stuff. i really like him, but i don't know what to do please help me.
2006-06-23 18:33:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you received was a big red flag. He sounds immature and angry. Who the hell is he to predict your love life? Trust me hun, there are probably a lot of guys out there willing to take his place...ones that won't hurt you as badly as your b/f did. Go prove him wrong....it would serve him right.
2006-06-23 18:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people are mad they say things that they dont really mean. Tell him not to say things like that again or else he wont get another chance. If you guys really love each other and you want to be together then be together, just dont let him disrespect you.
2006-06-24 01:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say some really vicious things when they argue, and chances are they don't mean them. He probably got scared because he had feelings for you and thought he was going to get hurt.
2006-06-24 01:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound's very desperate. Sound like he was the one who couldn't find anyone else. Doesn't soud like someone anice girl liek you needs to be associating with.
2006-06-24 01:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you have seen the differences. so just become friends if you feel there shouldn't be a relationship. tell him the truth again. truth does hurt alittle but he will survive
2006-06-24 01:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wuld not go back out wit him. he obviously isnt in love with u. if he was then he wuldn't of called u names. he said no guy wuld want to go out wit u. but he comes and askes u out. just say no
2006-06-24 01:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ever heard the saying ,,, people hurt the ones they love the most?? i think he knows you can find someone else and it scares him but men's ego are so strong mixed with testerone that it makes them like that
2006-06-24 01:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he think u are? stupid?! ok, if u didn't slap this guy already,i will. my friend did this to another friend of mine. guys get reaaaally emotional about girls, but this sounds like it's more of a control issue. dump him. make it a good one too. hurt this bastich.
2006-06-24 01:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM! Get out, because if he needs to put u down to make himself feel better then he doesnt deserve u!
2006-06-24 01:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know you both are diffrent then just move farward love that guy that love you not that person not love you
2006-06-24 01:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by jtn_chauhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋