Okay..i just need to understand one thing..if a guy tells you he "needs time" in regards to a getting back into a relationship buuut in the same breath is willing to have sex..someone clear up what the hell kind of game he is playing...or is it normal for a man to want to take things slow as far as getting back into a relationship and then quick to sleep w/ you? and there is sooo much more to it that I don't have the time to explain..omgsh someone tell me where men get off telling women that WE are confusing! yes, at times when we say no we mean yes and vice versa..but other than that it's pretty damn straight forward..men on the otherhand you guys just cant figure out what you want...
2006-06-23 18:26:19 · 5 answers · asked by Luvlee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys aren't THAT complicated if you think about it.
OF COURSE he doesn't want a relationship because he wants to be free to date whoever he wants, but at the same time, OF COURSE he would be willing to sleep with you! Guys are all about sex. Thats all you need to know about them. They don't want a relationship, they just want to have sex. But we don't know if they're just using us or if they actually want to be involved. Because sex makes it hard to understand feelings. But not for them. Its all they think about. Stand up for yourself and stop thinking about him so much because we're the ones who always worry about them, when they NEVER worry about us. I'm telling you. Please DON'T have sex until you're sure he wants a relationship again. Because I don't want you to get hurt by some guy who doesn't know what he's doing. Be careful
2006-06-23 18:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no! This is a guy you want to avoid at all cost! He's not sure of wanting a relationship but is okay with sex? That's a booty call and him wanting his cake and eating it too. He wants the free sex without the responsibility of being in a relationship with you.
Tell him to take a hike and go find someone else to be his ****buddy.
You deserve so much more than this jerk. Good thing he's your ex because he's not worth your time.
2006-06-23 18:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is very simple. Guys want their cake and to eat it too. If you are going to allow him to take the relationship slow and the sex fast of course he is going to take advantage of the situation. You need to make a choice...either keep up with the fast sex slow relationship or lay down the law. Which will probably mean moving on.
2006-06-23 18:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by kfir44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why by the cow when u get the milk 4 free! u can't get more straight forward than that. if u wanted a relationship and he wasn't ready then u shouldn't have slept with him!!!!!!
2006-06-23 18:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by pale rider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are GIRLS so damn confusing???
2006-06-23 18:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by J.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋