should i tell my exboyfriend whos sendin me mixed signals that i dont want him or risk another chance with him

Question

ok i wanna know should i tell him imtired of playin games and risk being with him again knowing that i really am fallin 4 him? but he is playin 2 many games with my emotions he makes me feel like im not good enuff 4 him.he tells me he likes me still one minute the next minute he dosent giva ratz *** about me. i really need 2 know should i leave it alone

Answer 1

You should definitely leave it alone. He's playing mind games with you because he can...He knows exactly what he is doing and he is going to keep doing it for as long as you let him so just tell him to leave you alone. Don't give him a reason because that will only make him try to prove you wrong.
Just tell him not to contact you anymore because you don't want to be with him and then work on getting over him.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Leave it alone. Im dealing with a similar situation. Once they see that you arent pressed about the situation they start to wonder. I know you've heard "u never miss your water til your wells runs dry"...u dont realize how true that is until you live it. I am hanging out with my friends more, & now I hear thru the grapevine that he's asking questions. Even if you are still interested, for your best interest, leave it be because mind games are for the birds. You can occupy your mind with something better like stimulating conversation from someone else. If he knows he can manipulate you, he will! Act like you arent pressed, even if its hard (& it can be if there are still feelings, trust me!!), & you will see an outcome. If he comes to his senses then you can probably work on a friendship or more. If he leaves you alone, then you have your answer, he wasnt worth the trouble in the first place because he wasnt serious. Good luck!

Answer 3

lay your cards on the table...go in a place where the two of u can talk without distractions and tell him whats in your heart.tell him how u feel about the things he is doing to u and tell him what u want.there will always b a chance of him not understang u, and him not being able to accept the things that u will tell him.but there is also a chance that he will and things will be better between the two of u.now what do want to do?everybodys deserves a 2nd chance and i believe that nothing cant be solved when 2 people are willing to talk and have an open mind.

Answer 4

sounds like u got a class act there, hun :P
i didnt know guys did this. a girl did the same thing to me. date someone else. doesn't have to be "true love" or ne thing, but u gotta keep up wit his games. if u really like this new guy, stick wit em, if all goes well, the class act will crack.