their is this hot boy that i like, but he doesn't i think because i'm big. How do i get over that thought?
2006-06-23 18:20:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him that i like him but he said no. then one of my friends told me its because of how i look
2006-06-23 19:10:31 · update #1
Um, if you live your life to please men, you will ultimately fail because men are fickle--and I am a man, so I know what I am talking about. God has never changed His standard for what pleases Him. Focus on that, and eveything else in life will fall into place--even if you don't get what you thought you wanted in the end.
2006-06-23 18:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by JSB2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can tell what size a particular guy dates by who he has dated in the past. If he only dates small women then chances are he prefers small women over big ones. I think you should just go up to him and ask him out if he says yes then great for you but if he says no then simply ask him why. If he can’t give you reasons then don’t sweat it because it’s his lost not yours. Beauty is in the inside not the outside and some men are more concerned with outer appearances then inner. Good luck!
2006-06-24 01:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Interested Fish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. That doesn't mean you are not wise, but it does mean you have too much ahead of you to waste your time on a guy who would dislike you just because of your looks. Obviously, there are cute guys and cute girls and they get our attention. But when you're looking for someone to really be friends with, even romantic friends, you want to look for someone with a little more than a cute face or hot figure.
Have fun, go out with friends, and save your romantic attentions for someone who is not going to judge you for your appearance. They ARE out there.
2006-06-24 01:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Pineapple Hat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident open and honest. ANd some guys like a curvy coke bottle instead of an anorexic prep. As long as you are healthy and active, you shouldn't worry about your appereance.
2006-06-24 01:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no idea if your big or not. Girls always think they are. But let him know, or have a friend find out if he likes you. You never know until you try.
2006-06-24 01:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident and positve not self conscience and negative. Just ask him. Who knows m/b he likes you too and wasn't sure if you liked him cuz you didn't tell him you liked him. -How would we have made it this far in life if we never took chances even the smallest ones?-
2006-06-24 01:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by I Luv Joel Madden!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move onto someone that can like and respect you for the real sized Woman that you are!
2006-06-24 01:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey has he told you this. have you ever tried to ask him. i know some bigger girls who are so beautiful and guess what..... they got the hot guys. dont ever bring the weight thing into it. if you have a winning personality thats what it takes.
2006-06-24 01:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off u need to tell him how u feel and see what he says. If he isn't interested then move on
2006-06-24 01:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would just stay near him i mean keep him like a friend and you never know he might need a shoulder to cry on later on in life and he might give you a chance......
2006-06-24 01:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋