MY EX BOYFRIEND is giving me MIXED SIGNALS HE DOSENT KNOW IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH ME OR PLAY WITH MY EMOTIONS.?

Question

he is tellin me that he likes me then he dont want want me or its he dont know.he can never be atraigt out when i ask him somthing.and im reall going nutz i would do almost anything to be with him again. and im tired og tryin to tell him its him i want.i dont know what to tell him or what to do! i think im fallin 4 him. and i really wanna know how he feels about me.but he wont be straight out. i mean when we first met i was sprung off him we were1 of a kind.now that we broke up he's giving me all these mixed signals and telling me things i thimk he dosent mean and i try everything to make this work back out it just seems worthless.i mean ive gotten to the point where i am literally depressed that he is starting a realtionship with my friend. and i try to get a new "toy" not a new boyfriend because i dont want a serious realationship unless its with him.what should i do move on? or try 2 work it out with him?

Answer 1

If you broke up it was for a reason. If he will not tell you that he has deep feelings for you, then he is probably just playing you and hoping for some sex on the side. This is the only reason for mixed signals if the you of you have had sex in the past.

It sounds to me like you need to sort your own emotions and behavior with men, including your ex-boyfriend. By treating someone else like a toy, you are setting yourself up to be treated like a toy in return for someone else.

Answer 2

If you are strong you will accept it . The earlier you do, lesser you lose. It is just a suggestion, dont take it otherwise.

He certainly does not love you.
He is just trying you keep you in place by giving you positive signals, so that anytime he needs you you are there.
At the same time he has either lost interest in you or has found his interest elsewhere, which is why he acts rude also at the same time.
The fluctuating behaviours in any situation most certainly is a negative indicator. Truthfulness and honesty brings consistency in behaviour patterns. Whereas people like him are seen to behave in an unpredictable manner where you will never be able to predict his next act/step.

Please beware. try to quit this relationship with no hopes of reviving. leave it on GOD and your LUCK. If at all, he is made for you, by hook or crook HE WILL BE YOURS.
God bless you. Please concentrate on your work. Time is precious.

Answer 3

I think the reason he's your ex is because he's not into you. A man who is into you would not be so ambiguous about his feelings for you. And he wouldn't try to date your friend either! I think he likes keeping you on a string because you're allowing him to.

Honestly, do you really want someone who makes you feel so bad to be your boyfriend? Why are you letting him toy with your emotions. You seem like such a sweet and smart person. Stop asking about his feelings. He knows you love him and he's using that against you.

Unfortunately, you'll have to let him go. If he's making you feel so bad about yourself and you're getting depressed, that's a sign that he's not the one for you. You should be with a man who makes you feel good about yourself and will tell you straight out that he loves you (without having to be asked).

Answer 4

Gosh! if he is 'ex' then let him go . It is not his love or feelings for you that is attaching you to him but your love that is not letting your memories fade .
He should not be the one to make sole decision of restarting a relationship which is mutual . You need to put your foot down . Confront him . If he doesn't see anything more meaningful then he should leave you for good . If he says , he is undecided then give him a deadline . He cant take you for a ride unless you let him to .Take charge of your life and get responsible towards this relationship . strengthen or stop , just dont be a sentimental fool .