Most men want to lay down and have unprotected sex but don't want to face reality when the woman gets pregnant With doing that they have agreed to be a father.
2006-06-23 17:30:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is why we have DNA testing and child support enforcement ... track that no good bastard down and make him pay... Now on a lighter side i myself would really enjoy shooting my ex husband right in the wanker so you might consider this either as a form of entertainment or a solution to population problems
2006-06-23 17:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making a blanket statement about unmarried fathers.
Unprotected sex? Unless it's rape, there are two people making that decision. Or are you saying women don't have the right to control their own bodies or to say "no glove, no love"?
"Deadbeats"? Most probably are, but how often in a divorce or separation does the woman prevent the man from seeing his children, even when he has visitation rights? I have no numbers so I won't make any claims, but that does happen. If a woman won't let a man be involved with the child/ren's life, why demand financial support? Ever heard of "No taxation without representation"?
And what about men who don't know there's a kid? People - men AND women - who choose to have sex outside of relationships ought to think about the consequences first. Sure, such men should pay support, but if they don't know about it, how do they pay?
The wording of your question infers that men bear all the responsibility. I'm not absolving creeps and rapists who run away and don't pay support, but the responsibility is 50/50.
Judgement of men who don't pay financial support can only be made on a case-by-case basis. One sieze (of assets) DOESN'T fit all.
2006-06-24 00:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are very many guys like that and only a few good ones.Us woman usually take all or most responsibility for the child or children.I wish there was a way to change this "trend" , but I don't know of one.I know there are many guys getting girls pregnant and leaving and when the baby is born many guys only see the child at the guys convenience and may even pay little or no child support.I think this is a sensitive issue for me b/c I have seen that not all men are like this,but have also seen that many men are.
2006-06-24 00:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are not connected with their children because the children's mother makes it too difficult. It is the woman's responsibility to make sure she does not get pregnant. After all she is the one who it most affects. There is no such thing as an "accidental pregnancy". Women try to trap a man by getting pregnant then get all upset when the man doesn't stay around.
2006-06-24 00:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While this is true, what about the woman? Why are women having unproteced sex when THEY are the one who could become pregnant and get STDs? Ladies, it is your body, take control over it. No unprotected sex!!! Speaking of controlling your body, it is your choice to carry a baby to term. Just because you got pregnant, doesn't mean you must have the baby. Stop being a slave to society and think for yourself here!
2006-06-24 00:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any so called man who does this sort of thing these days is an idiot. Unprotected sex is just too risky with AIDS etc rampant in our societies.
As for not providing for their children I believe that they are the scum of the earth.
2006-06-24 00:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local Dept Family Services and ask them how to go about a child support order making SURE that he pays thru your state's Child Support Enforcement agency. If he's 10 mins late on any payment, bug the hell outta child support enforcement til they threaten to arrest him and suspend his license if he doesn't pay.
2006-06-24 00:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a man he is a son of a @#$%# but then I have to say it takes two to make a baby and she is the dumb @#$ for not making sure he was going to be around to raise the baby like marriage.
2006-06-24 00:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by willyo2340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called irresponsible and immature. But seeing what your handle is on here, I'd say that you haven't grown up yet either. Get an education, then find a good paying job and change your name here.
2006-06-24 00:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be skinned alive or else have Lorena Bobbit to handle the problem and chop his family jewels off.
2006-06-24 00:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋