This girl I liked said "I'll answer that movie question. maybe means no. I'm just too nice to say so. if I didn't like you before, it was because I didn't know you that well, and besides that, I like someone else. but after talking to you I can see that it really wouldn't work out...ever. we're too different, I dont' agree with you on politics, although that isn't the problem. I really dont' like your views or how you choose to back them up. I'm sure you can say the same for me, but...the only problem I have is how you have this "my way or nothing" attitude, i'm not going to go to a movie with you. I'm trying to be nice, but I suppose I sound really horrible. sorry again for that, but it's just not going to work out. I know you like me, but I just don't feel the same way about you. sorry...I hope you won't be too mad."
This was the fist girl That I acutally asked out....I dont know what to do...I still like her alot.
2006-06-23 17:25:49 · 14 answers · asked by mat m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get used to it kid .And go look for another one to ask out.
2006-06-23 17:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens. you get up and dust yourself off. You have plenty of girls in your future that will say yes, the other side of the coin, is you'll have girls that will say no, it's part of life. Either you think about the way you come off to people, and change because you want to, or just find somebody who likes you for you. Life is about a series of lessons, either we learn or we pick a new lesson plan. Don't get too bumbed out, I've been rejected, it hurts, but just wait. When you find the girl that says yes, it's the greatest feeling, everything bad will disapear. Take what your feeling now, and turn it into a positive, write, workout, do something. Good luck bro.
2006-06-23 17:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Curt P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HER. Dude, she is SO confused and arrogant. If she can't make up her mind, OR chooses you because she didn't know you, she has no clue about life. These are the type of people who have 5 kids, get married 3 times, and end life as a lonely alcoholic wondering why nobody wants them.
TRUST ME, find someone better.
Good luck and blessings,
Jon
(I have nothing against kids or marriage. I am talking about broken lives here)
2006-06-23 17:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by jonthecomposer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way...... At least she's being honest with you and letting you know exactly how she feels. She doesn't want you mad at her, so maybe you two can still be friends. Since it was the first girl you asked out, don't let something like this get in your way of asking out someone else. Move forward.....guaranteed you will find someone who you will like even better....and they will feel the same towards you. Someday, you'll look back at this and laugh at it!
2006-06-23 17:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still like her... but it seems like she's not gonna come around so maybe you should just find someone else... I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.
2006-06-23 17:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything. you should be happy this girl didn't play head games with you. She was straight forward and didn't lead you on. go find another chick who shares the same values and interests as you do.
2006-06-23 17:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. There will be many more girls in your life that you'll like. If she doesnt feel the same for you then just let her be.
2006-06-23 17:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by TK #11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... it's sounds a horrible thing that had happen to you. I think it does matter how much she hates you or don't like you, you can still like her. nothing can stop you from liking her, so you can still like her.
2006-06-25 11:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya im a boi2 and i like this gal but she dumped me after we wernt going out nyway so get used to getting dmped i done it like 9999999999 times lol good luk
2006-06-23 17:29:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her dude. She's probably a stuck up *****, who only likes guys for money
2006-06-23 17:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋