why do woman seem so heartless! when it comes to relationships.?

Answer 1

why do men?.... Actually, I have experienced to be so depressed caused by a former bf. He seemed to be so heartless in our relationship. There is only thing I want to say here... not only woman (but not all women) seem so heartless in a relationship, but man does too.

Answer 2

Sometimes it is because they have been hurt. Sometimes it is because the man has made some hurtful comment, and the woman is responding appropriately. Respect is a two way street.
Some men have a tendency to be very harsh verbally and women become defensive, then are labeled as a female dog. When in reality, if they had been treated with dignity and respect, they would most usually respond in like fashion.
Little things mean a lot to women, like roses, a compliment, new article of clothing, being taken out to eat, so that she won't have to cook. Women respond to these things because they show respect for her as a person. Most women will reward this kind of thoughtfulness. Sadly, it's far too rare, on the part of men.
These things should be done, without an ulterior motive.
I have never known a woman that has disrespected a really nice man. I do see it on TV and in the movies, but I think that this is a very distorted picture. Most women are smart enough to know that what goes out also comes back to you, and when it comes back, it's always worse.
If you are having difficulty locating someone whose company you enjoy, perhaps you should change the places where you look for women. The best thing that you can do is to give this to GOD in prayer, tell HIM exactly what you want in a woman and you will have it. Remember too, that GOD's timing is not the same as our timing. May GOD bless you.

Answer 3

It goes both ways. Men and women can be pretty heartless when it comes to people they aren't in love with. They could've been hurt by past love so they keep the other person out of their life, afraid to get close.
What are you doing about it? Are you expressing your love for her, but she rejects you? Is she not paying attention to you. Even though she says she loves you does she treat you badly? If she's treating you badly, is she mad at you?
If you've been hurt by this person, maybe it's time to let go. Because you don't need to be in a relationship where you're not loved and your needs aren't met.

Answer 4

Well I think women can ask the exact same question for men. We seem heartless sometimes because we never know if a guy really cares about us or because we've been heartbroken before and are too afraid to open up again...

Answer 5

you've answered your own question. most women only seem heartless. they get that way from being in relationships where there boyfriends walk all over them or treat them like they own them. if men would learn how to better treat women they might have a better chance at a decent relationship. women like to have their doors opened by a gentelman or surprised with roses just because you felt like doing so. try that and see what a difference it makes. i know it does i am happily married the woman of my dreams and its because i do these things for her. it makesa her feel like she is the most important woman in the world.

Answer 6

Has it occurred to you that maybe more women are getting hurt more often now. I don't think that most women are like this however, I can only speak for myself. Being hurt tends to harden anyone's heart, but love can usually melt and soften even the hardest of hearts. If we seem heartless, it may be because so many of you have hurt and lied to us for so long until after awhile you get tired of giving your heart only to have it smashed again and again........

Answer 7

My ex boyfriend once told me that i was so heartless .. & now that i think about it .. its because i have always been so scared to fall in love .. i have put up this wall between guys and i .. so that i cant get hurt so i have put on this act .. fooled them in thinking i am this tough girl .. who has total controll of everything & that i am fine and no one can please me .. well you see .. thats not me .. so maybe someone else is out there that is also like me .. and they also put on this act .. and than ppl .. label them as heartless ..

Answer 8

Women are much less committed to relationships than men are. I know.....a lot of men are players and bounce about...but those guys aren't in relationships, they just say they are....when a guy says he'd marry her in a burlap sack with flip flops on, they mean it....women tend to need more. They can't commit to a lifetime with you unless there are fringes......big weddings.....expensive dresses.....buying a house.....and the ones that do settle for less believe somehow that they can't find anyone better......you don't hear stories of women travelling the world....or battling their way back from war .....or going through trials and tribulations to get the man they love.....they know there's always another one in the wings somewhere........men over commit.....expect the woman they love to love them the same way....to think of no one else....men always cut a place in their heart for their "true love" and are devastated if they lose them......maybe to look around for another one.....women make little dents in their hearts where they place what they hope will be their soulmate....but dents can be repaired and they are never certain that anyone is truly their soulmate. Some resolve themselves to the fact that they may never find anyone else....but they truly can recover very quickly if need be.

Answer 9

Women aren't heartless ESPECIALLY when it comes to relationships. You probably just met the wrong one... and by that I mean she might've been through a bad relationship and is just trying to protect herself.

Answer 10

it's not just women who are heartless. Men can be the same way. It all depends on the individual.