heart is broken..?

Question

been through alot. Found out my boyfriend has been lying to me, never was a Christian,he lied to me. He never accepted my morals, or how i was sexualy pure, waiting for marriage. All i want is a Christian Godly man to have same morals, and share them with me, and have a beautiful marriage. I cant wait for that. My heart is full of Love. and on top, God.

I want to say thanks to everyone for everything!! i love you all.

Keep me in your prayers.

Why would he lie about himself for so long..3 years? He never got nething from me, I was classy.

Answer 1

I'm sorry you're hurting. It is better that you know now.

Hold firm to what you believe. Pray that God will bring someone into your life that will please Him, but also pray that He'll prepare you for the relationship.

I will pray for you. May God bless you in your service to Him.

Answer 2

Maybe you were asking too much. He obviously DID accept that you were sexually pure, since you say you are still a virgin. When you say he is not Christian, do you mean he doesn't go to your specific type of christian church, or that he is jewish or muslim, or athiest. Did you ever think that he was with you for so long because he actually loves you? Three years is an awefully long time for someone to play along using you, He would have tired out after only a few weeks. I think YOU NEED TO GROW UP, and realize you aren't living in a fairy tale. YOu aren't going to find that man, He doesn't exist.

Oh, and by the way, it was YOU who were lieing to you, not him

Answer 3

Sorry to hear what happened to you. I will pray for discernment for you that you may be able to identify whether or not someone is telling you the truth about themselves.
In this day in age you have to be careful it is easy to marry the wrong person and live a life of regret. You sound like such a sweet, good Christian and I will pray for you now.
Oh Lord, help this woman with her relationships and guide her to the man that will be her husband that you have picked out for her. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

Answer 4

I will be praying for you. I am saddened to hear that someone lied about thier faith to get next to you. You are precious. God says that you are fearfully and wonderfully made, His thoughts are good towards you, He loves you and will be with you always until the end. at times like this, you must draw on your faith. Faith is the substance for things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. I declare that God's love will flow throughout your life. The blood of Jesus will protect you. The Word will direct you and the Holy Spirit wil comfort you. It will be all right, for all things work for the good of them that love God and are called to His purpose in glory. You will be fine. Continue to save yourself. I did and I'm now happily married.

Answer 5

Sadly some men think that you will change your mind about your morals once your with them. It's his loss and you should be very proud of yourself for holding your head up high, because you know that God is paving the way for someone special. So for now is the time to be sad because some jerk wasted your time, but be thankful that you didn't get anymore serious with him. Time heals all things.

Answer 6

There is a story of a young boy who had a choice between 4 dimes now or a dollar next week, he immediately took the dimes, the next week came around and he wished he waited for the dollar. Honey all you are doing is waiting on your dollar. God Bless.

Answer 7

The power of evil is far greater than any of us can imagine. Sometimes, evil doesn't have to present itself fully...rather just slowly but surely work its way into someone's life.

But...the power of God is far more powerful than evil itself. I like your perspective on how you want, dream, and desire of a godly man in a godly relationship.

This is what God wants...whether you have to do it through pain, agony, and sorrow. For He literally honors those, who honor Him.

Go in peace..and walk with Christ and none other.

Answer 8

Look at it from his point of view, for 3 years he lied to himself just to impress you, that's saying alot about his character. Sounds to me like he really cares for you and would do anything to be with you. If your a true christian, you'll forgive him

Answer 9

I'm sorry to hear about this. I know that you will know them by thier fruits.

Mat 7:16 You shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes from thorns, or figs from thistles?
Mat 7:17 Even so every good tree brings forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree brings forth evil fruit.
Mat 7:18 A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruits, nor can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
Mat 7:19 Every tree that does not bring forth good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.
Mat 7:20 Therefore by their fruits you shall know them.
Mat 7:21 Not everyone who says to Me, Lord! Lord! shall enter the kingdom of Heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in Heaven.
Mat 7:22 Many will say to Me in that day, Lord! Lord! Did we not prophesy in Your name, and through Your name throw out demons, and through Your name do many wonderful works?
Mat 7:23 And then I will say to them I never knew you! Depart from Me, those working lawlessness!
Mat 7:24 Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on a rock.
Mat 7:25 And the rain came down, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house. And it did not fall, for it was founded on a rock.
Mat 7:26 And everyone who hears these sayings of Mine and does not do them shall be compared to a foolish man who built his house on the sand.
Mat 7:27 And the rain came down, and the floods came, and the wind blew and beat on that house. And it fell, and great was its fall.
Mat 7:28 And it happened, when Jesus had ended these sayings, that the people were astonished at His doctrine.
Mat 7:29 For He taught them as one having authority, and not as the scribes.

I pray that you will continue to stay pure, as a child of God.
Love in Christ, Sabrina

Answer 10

I hear ya cuz! Haha.... thats horrible that it happened to you....but that just means that God has someone else in mind for you! I know you will find the guy your supposed to be with! Good luck! God Bless!