my gf told me that i am a perfect partner for her but right now she's confused and stupid.Also she told me that she has no life direction right now.and she told me that she'll gonna miss me and soon she'll regret it.Do you think she will still realize to come back to me?I didn't call her or text her for 2 days now but i am really hurting.I can't sleep or eat coz everytime i check my cell phone hoping that she'll call me.I miss her so much and i wan't her back.Do you think that she's having an affair that's why she left me?What shall i do?Each day for me is a punishment.I am thinking that while she's out there partying im here in so much pain.thanks for having time reading my long message.I have no one to confide.
2006-06-23 17:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by maverick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey there sweetie.. its a confusing time for you. can't sleep..can't eat.. wonderin if you should call her... boi.. don't be depress.. it hard to think of someone new.. but things like these happen. its part of growin up. yet the day feels long.. like not worth living, but the sun doesn't rise for no reason.. she will realize what she lost.. your charming smile, fuuny sense of humor, and those gorgeous eyes.. don't forget.. her lost is another gals treasure.. so don't despair.. plenty of girls out there, who wants a handsome guy at their side.. you'll always have ya memories.. but new ones are bound to be made.. so my dear. take it easy.. go out.. be with friends.. take a mini vacation.. get ya mind off of her.. enjoy this time.. cause who knows? she might come running back.. until than.. aloha..
2006-06-23 17:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by isLand Princess 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Everybody seems to be heartbroken lately.. myself included. She maybe actually be confused right now and there's nothing that can be done to help that. Maybe she just needs to get her life back on track. I can't say for sure because I don't know what kind of person she is... but I'm just saying that not everything is said to make you feel better. Pain can only last for so long... things will get better with time. As for having no one to confide in, you have people all around you. Feel better (:
2006-06-24 00:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction is a true sign that you should move on. You cannot have a healthy relationship and feel the way you do right now.
You will find someone out there that you love more than you need. Right not you think you need this chick to eat, sleep... NO GOOD MAN! Let her go, eat some pizza, get some sleep. The one you will love more than you need is out there.
Good Luck
2006-06-24 00:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not thinking straight. Do you want a girl who plays with your emotions? Do you have any idea of what kind of hell your life would be if she came back and did this to you over and over? Face reality. This is probably the best thing that could have happened.
Now pick yourself up and get back out there in the social scene. She will be jealous as hell as soon as she sees you with other women. Then you can have the last laugh.
2006-06-24 00:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that sometime too but my case was thath i was cheating on my bf and i felt sorry and i didnt want to hurt him so i dumped him!But its like you then made all these mistakes and you dont know which way to go!Call her or even text her cause you need to text her and keep in touch wit her she might think your moving on and shes moving on ask her what is bothering her and what she is going through have a lil nice conversation wit her dont bother to mention anything about you and her cause she just will get mad give her her space just have a friendly talk with her if it doesnt work out then it wasnt meant to be!
2006-06-24 00:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting out of the chair, take a bath wear something nice have a shave and do something you havent done before like a spurious trip to france or go mountainclimbing. something to get your mind off her. call male friends for a poker game or a guys night out. actually i advice you to stay away from alcohol. it is a depressant when taken in large amounts.. its going to make you feel worse.
2006-06-24 00:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think she's got to be havin an affair...but about the "she'll miss u and she'll regret it" part...i think she likes u and she doesn't wanna hurt u so bad so she was just tryin 2 be nice...
so i think u should just move on...i know it isn't easy...but u have to do it
2006-06-24 00:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY BUT EVERYONE GOES THRU IT. IT SUCKS. JUST HANG IN THERE GO THRU THE SAD EMOTIONS AND DON'T CONTACT HER. THAT IS MORE ATTRACTIVE THAT CALLING HER AND POUTING. SHE MAY COME BACK GIVE HER TIME IF YOU HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP SHE WILL FIND HOW MANT JERKS THERE ARE OUT THERE. FEEL SAD IT'S NORMAL. YOU WILL GET THRU IT! PROMISE!!
2006-06-24 00:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop bieng a pussy. get over it ur a man. females come and go. and yea the painful truth is she is prob havin an affair. jus find a new girl an live ur life
2006-06-24 00:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by chicago85thst 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
due she is not cheating somthing happend to her she dont want you to find out because she is scared it will make you hate her
2006-06-24 00:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by secretadmire_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋