Where do I go from here?

Question

My gf and I have been together for three years straight, then off and on for anther two years. She's my first gf and the only girl I loved like this (so far). Though I had other gf's during our two year on and off relationships, I always break up with the others whenever she wants to get back again. Recently we broke up again because she said she was tired of me (again). I love her still, but I don't want to hurt anymore how do I move on? Where do I go from here?

Answer 1

i bet u have this constant pain & wen ur around other people 4 the most part u can keep it in but wen ur home alone in bed it just hurts so bad...if u feel like that then u need 2 sit her down & tell her how u feel & if she feels the same then get married if not then the only way 2 even slightly heal is that u cant have her in ur life anymore ... ull heal over but it wont b truly healed until u find the next love of ur life...but in doing so she cant be a part of ur life @ all

Answer 2

You need to stop letting her wreck you. Let me tell you about David....

I've been married to a man I love for five years now. I want him to be happy, I want babies with him. I would die for him. Christian is the best thing that ever happened to me.

David was the first person I ever loved, and under the guise of friendship, he and I had an affair that lasted a long time. Since before I married Christian, even.

David comes along and ruins my life routinely, and I let him. he hurts me, and I let him. He's almost cost me my marriage, my military career, and my life at one point. I may not be able to have children because of a choice I made thanks to him. You may not ever have to deal with those things, but let me tell you this. This girl likes the power she has over you. She likes wrecking your world. She likes hurting you. She likes the control. Whenever she feels crappy, she comes to you to feel powerful again. That's all this is about. She does to you what david has done to me, over and over again.

Here's the awful truth... she will keep doing this as long as you let her. And she will cost you the best chances you have for happiness because you let her. This is no way to live, my friend. Let her go. Move on. One day she will do it without you, so you might as well beat her to the punch. For your own sake, for your future happiness with someone who will love you like you deserve, don't denegrate yourself to being her stand in boy toy anymore.

Answer 3

you need to move on,it will be daunting for a while but every day goes by and it gets easier and you will start to meet new people,you need to change your phone number and dont call her any more nor speak with her,make it a clean break as long as she is still in your life she is holding you back from being with your soal mate meeting your one true love,and thats not fair becuae it is time you had a good time and met new people and gave it a chance,

Answer 4

You need to try to accept that this girl will never stay with you. You are letting her have too much of your heart that you can't let anyone else in. Once you can let go, u will be ready to move on and accept another girl into your heart. You deserve better than someone who gets "tired" of you. <3

Answer 5

Find some really HOT babe and do her like no tomorrow. Then find another HOT babe and do her too. Eventually you will move on and forget the "using *****". And if not....yet again find another HOT mama and give her a whirl too!