I've experienced situations where a female i may be dating decides she wants sex. So, she looks at me and tells me to do it, and starts to undress herself and me. Okay... cool. But is there something wrong with me if I don't get all aroused because of this. When I was in highschool a clothed female could get me excited, but now I have no reaction. I function normally (erections in the morning, arousal from porn from time to time, and masturbation). So what do you think the problem is?
2006-06-23 15:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because sometimes people just look funnier naked?
2006-06-23 15:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by rattwagon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the anticipation and the challenge, finding a girl worthy of your time and efforts. Sex for you is more mental than anything else. There's nothing wrong with you. Think of it like this... acient men were hunters, right? Men looked, sought after, tracked, and killed prey... These days men channel surf, and grill things, and buy gadgets. Women are a part of that challenge, just like they were then. Now, rare is it to find a guy that isn't down for sex whenever a girl offers, but that's what is neat about you. And these days, rarer still to find a girl that doesn't consider herself sexually mature (read easy) and liberated (read forward). I bet you're more into the demure women with morality... You won't settle for the hamburger thrown at you when what you want is the fillet mignon. I applaud you. Keep looking for the girl that lights your fire, but makes you wait for her.
2006-06-23 16:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, man usually want things they have to work for and that is hard to get, so if a girl just strips and ask for sex he gets suspicious and wonders what's up with her and thinks that maybe she kinda have a disease or something...
2006-06-23 15:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably performance anxiety
yuo are getting uptight and stressed about the situation
you need to learn to relax and enjoy the moment
you might beneft from some counselling or from the occassional use of viagra to get your confidence back
2006-06-23 15:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe an aggressive woman turns you off. If you like to be in control sometimes it can be a turn off if someone else takes control.
2006-06-23 15:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you've gotten more in touch with you inner self.. like sex is only physical and you want to be more emotionally involved than just physically involved.. the girl u were dating might not have that emotional connection or chemistry that u wanted..
2006-06-23 15:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by brownish gold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U probably have tons of moral in your mind that u didn't realize. Sometimes ur under stress at certain environment, so can't turn on.
2006-06-23 16:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mono 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh you just need to quit going to strip bars and geting involved with women who are easy.
2006-06-23 15:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by LONEWOLF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Societal Sexual Oversaturation Syndrome
Hey, that sounds pretty good. I just made that up.
2006-06-23 16:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre not going the other way are you? if not maybe she is not attractive as you thought she was... maybe u should watch the porn while you have her over and then see what happens
2006-06-23 15:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_jemise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋