help the females to be less impressionable/emotional/ sensitive and too easily attached? How to be more like the males and not give a damn about anything???? stupid question huh because women were just made that way and preprogrammed to Feel while the men got the "get out for free" card and know how to avoid any Real feelings.
what do you think?
2006-06-23 15:45:08 · 11 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
oh come on people Im just being logical. what no one agrees w me?
2006-06-23 18:46:28 · update #1
Why do you want to be like them? They have there own set of problems to deal with. If you want to really get over on them, self confidence. If you truly believe that you are the best person that you know then it will not matter what anyone else thinks because you will know deep down in your heart that you are the best person you know . And with self confidence under your belt, people who hurt you in the past will leave you alone. Because you and I know that they are not worth your time.
2006-07-03 21:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by nanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that perhaps you have met the wrong guys. Not all of us are like that, if that were the case i would not be feeling the way i do, stuck in a world of deep depression/ anxiety because of being too attached & dumped. I think for both sexes it would be better too not put all of ourselves into other people, leaving nothing for ourselves, Being patient in finding that right person takes alot of work, as most of us rush out too impress the ones we are attracted too & then usually get hurt. I hope you find happier times & better relationships. Good luck 2 us both!
2006-07-05 14:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women both have feeling men just supress them more. I bet if u get a man to watch a movie like Terms of Endearment while ur not around he'll be crying like a baby. Plus, its not healthy not to give a damn.
2006-07-04 20:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just better at supressing their feelings than women. That is why women live longer. Maybe you will like the info on this site by top psychologists (like Dr Happy) on how to be happier. One guy chose it as best answer with 5 stars.
http://phifoundation.org/life.html
2006-06-23 23:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is not to avoid expressing feelings. The most important thing females need to learn is to love ourselves and have a high self esteem, and not to let anyone abuse us emotionally, just because we allow them to do it
2006-06-23 23:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Virginia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a female trait females are the more aggressive creature caring for someone as in love relationships and commitment are all nothing more then a choice that you make if you choose to be committed to someone it's a choice you can stay because you choose or or not to it's your choice guys have developed a way of not showing they care in front of their friends or you it makes them appear weak not all guys are like that hope you find someone that would choose you
2006-07-03 20:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by panhandler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe men do feel just as much pain but they are simply hiding their feelings because they don't know how to express them properly. I hope so because it's not fair that we are so emotional.
2006-07-02 13:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very angry and/or hurt right now. Cool out a bit, and then think this thru'. I think that we can raise girls to have enough self-esteem to avoid some of these pitfalls, and I don't think it's all "nature". "Nurture" has a lot to do with it.
2006-06-23 22:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Joey's Back 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound kind a funny, It look like you are having a man problem
I suggest that you find a new man,one who love and Cherish you
their is lot of good man out here waiting for the right woman, are
you one
2006-07-05 19:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to THINK hurts too much!!! :-)
2006-06-23 22:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋