Now I know the generic "love symptoms" for lack of better words but what made it "click" for sure.
2006-06-23 15:38:55 · 7 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the chemistry we have with each other. it was something i never had with no one. the first day i met him was crazy. we talked on the phone for hours and hours and said so much. by the first week that we new each other we already had developed a crush. the way he makes me feel no one has ever done that. i feel so comfortable around him no matter what i say, do, or wear. he understands me and just the little things he does makes me know hes the one. even years later i still get goose bumps when he touches me or what he tells me :)
2006-06-23 15:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have discovered there isnt just one person for anyone. There are a spectrum of choices. You need to have things in common, have the same sorts of goals for the future, be able to get along smoothly with each others family and friends. The ability to sacrifice for each other is often a very strong reason. Naturally there is the thrill factor , if you dont tingle when he kisses you but you did when someone else kissed you, think twice or you are likely to be a cheater in the end. It takes time to know someone, dont just jump into it. I had a real thing for a tall , strong good looking blonde guy, and we got engaged, but within a few months it fell apart because he was a thousand miles away most of the time, his mother hated me and i wasnt fond of her either, plus he liked smoking and drinking and had a roving eye. So I ended up marrying a short dark haired guy with glasses who was seven years older than me. I got along with his family, he got along with my family and we have been together nearly 40 years. Sure I could have made it work to some degree with the sexier, younger guy, but I would have always had an argument with his mom, that would have created tension, And I never would have trusted that he wasnt going to cheat. There is a lot more to life than that tingly feeling when he kisses you.
2006-06-23 22:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say it was on our second date... when he just looked at me over dinner.. something in the twinkle of his eyes and the way that look made my heart leap. Sigh.. I knew he was 'the One'. And he proves me right every day!
2006-06-23 22:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by ladyangelovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, it is too hard to put into words. It was/is just a feeling. I used to be commitmentphobic to, until I met him. I just knew he is the one.
2006-06-23 22:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a feeling u get when u see him or when he holds u. i can't explain the feeling to u, u have to experience it ur self. u'll find that when u r in his arms, u feel like nothing else in world matter.
2006-06-23 22:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i said"we should just be friends" and he said "it's o.k i'll wait 4 u"
2006-06-23 22:42:07 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing at all.... i just felt it.... he wasnt very funny or smart or cute or even really nice but i just felt it...
2006-06-23 22:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋