how do you win back and x lover? That you still love very much?

Question

we where togethor for 2.5 yrs and were to marrie. She wanted a baby now. I like to plan. She is from Czeck Republic and Im American. We never fought , Sex as great. Just one day she woke up and was a differant person. Like her time clock was running. She is 35. Says she needs to find a man that will give her a baby and she can be a mom at home. Its been 5 months and she is still by her self.

Answer 1

It depends on why you broke up. Did you break up with her or her with you? Was there infidelity involved?

Unfortunately I do not have enough info from your question to help you, other than the regular - Send flowers.... I made a mistake... Beg...etc

Answer 2

Part of the solution 1) find out from your x in which of the three areas are you considered incompatible: 1) values systems, 2) personalities, 3) sexual attractiveness. If there is sufficient compatibility in each of the three areas then you have a chance to get back together. If it is for example (2) that you are not compatible then find out what you can do to change, counciling, or what ever. In (3) either change behavioral habits or some such thing. If (1) then obtain books on proverbs or cultural proverbs and have a study session with your x, or adapt to his or her value system, some such thing.

I think the whole flowers and gifts thing is a waste of time because no body wants to be with a User. But it may work and the things I suggest may not, depending on what your are dealing with. search your heart on this matter because ultimately you will have to decide.

Answer 3

She is your ex-lover for a reason. You move on, learn from the experience show your next lover that you have evolved and have a better understanding of what love is really about. Show her through actions, your words and constantly let her know, every day, how much you appreciate and love her because she has blessed you with the love she shares with you. If you can do this, you will find eternal love and know how life with another is supposed to be lived. Be an example to others and you will have accomplished your goal in life by showing the world that love is the most powerful gift two people can share with the world. Money is power, but love, true unconditional love is the ultimate bliss in life.

Answer 4

Try following them around all the time. Also show up at their work at least a couple times a day and cause a big scene by yelling "WHY DON"T YOU LOVE ME ANYMORE?" at the top of your lungs.

Sorry!!! I'm being a big jerk face. I'm just saying that you need to be careful not to come on to strong and end up looking desperate or worse. Believe me I've been there. It is much better to get on with your life. If this is meant to be you'll get another chance down the road. If not you'll meet someone else and your life will be better for it.
Good Luck

Answer 5

You can't! I've tried, and all that happens is you look desperate and lose all credibility in their eyes, and your self esteem will suffer greatly. It is soooo hard to move on sometimes, but that's the card you've been dealt. Deal with it!

Answer 6

Start having sex again. That always seem to be the first stepping stone.

Answer 7

my experience with your situation has always been, if it did not work out the first time, there was a reason for that. it may be best to leave it alone.

good luck with whatever you do.

Answer 8

You dont! Move on honey and find someone sexier and more intelligent because your ex is OBVIOUSLY a loser

Answer 9

tell him how u feel, and find out if he still feel the same way for u.

Answer 10

new broom sweep clean, old broom knows the corner.