if they have only been together 4 1 yr. b/c i want sex all the time and i am 32 my fiance is 37 and he only wants to do it about 3 times a week he is totally in love with me but sometimes he neeeds a break,he said he is not as young as he used to be..can someone explain this...
2006-06-23 15:25:48 · 19 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everything is okay. He is 37, and he's correct. A man just can't last as long as he get's older... and the sexual drive isn't there like it used to be. You on the other hand are just coming down out of your sexual peak and are still wanting it ALL THE TIME. Be a little bit more understanding for your man... if it's a real concern find a local health food store and look for some herbal suplements that will help build up his libido. There's also Enzyte... the happy pill.
2006-06-23 15:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by TheLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for 4, then stretch it to 5. Try quickies once in a while on the kitchen floor or the countertop that are easy, fast and take little preparation. The huge dramatic production of fine love making is great and needed. Once that art is understood between you, fast ones can be squeezed off in 15 minutes whenever the opportunity arises (so to speak). He would have more stamina for more if at least a few were the easy kind. Making love to a woman is a tremendous amount of effort. Let him take the easy ones when you can ... you may find that you like those the best. The quickies don't work too well without a solid foundation of thoughtful love-making over a prolonged period. They are the proverbial icing on the cake.
2006-06-23 15:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7
2006-06-23 15:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by dick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-5
2006-06-23 15:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is different for everyone, not all couples have sex as often as your finace does, whereas some couples do it much more. It just depends on each individual couple, just try and work out what is good for you both to keep it enjoyable, dont try and pressure each other into doing it more or less times.
2006-06-23 15:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. Does he work longer hours than you? Because I find it hard to believe that after working eight to ten hours, and commuting, that a person would want to have sex EVERY SINGLE DAY. I mean there have got to be days when you come home and just want to pass out.
2006-06-23 15:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think about 4 times a week and u shouldnnt rush him if u want to keep him so about 4 0r 3 days a week im like u i need sex but u dont wan to lose him hoped i helpled.
2006-06-23 15:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by jerrell'sz_bOO. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should be spotenious, it is the most beatiful moment between two people that really care about each other. there is nothing wrong to do it every day as long as you enjoy it. it should not be limited to certain number of times a week.
2006-06-23 15:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in your prime. He has gone through his prime and is on a gentle decline now. Actually 3 times a week is about average though.
2006-06-23 15:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount that makes you too happy and the days you don't have to wake up early the next day for work. Unless that is your treat, like coffee but tons better. Hehe....good luck and hey have a blast and forget it, the amount you two like it. Good luck ;)!
2006-06-23 15:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋